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Hey everyone I am so tired I could just lay down and Die. I am tired of being a doormat and giving all of my love and selflessness to a loser who doesn't appreciate it at all. I have never been a taker I am 100% giver and I really am on the verge of hating my Wh. He blames me and blames me and I am sick to death of it he can have her and she can have him I can raise theses children by my self with out him. There is someone out there that will appreciate me and my kids. that won't see it as my job to make them happy. I am 32 and this is my second marriage to losers who cheat. I think sometimes that all males are flawed in someway. I seem to attract those anyway. I don't know if i will continue posting here but I have learned a lot and I am looking forwad to the next 30 years maybe I can find someone that will want to work together instead of leaving me when I need him the most. You can't say I didn't try. I gave it my all but you can only beat yourself against a brick wall for so long before you don't want to get up any more. He is selfish and I will have to deal with him But only for scant amounts of time.As long as he pays and doesn't interfer with my life I am okay with that.But katie bar the door if he hurts one of my kids again. I will string him up by his genitals.I found a house for me and the kids and we will move this week. so i may not have internet or phone for a while but thats okay it will be quite. get me a few months then i may move in to socalizing but right now I hate most men and would just as soon as puke as to have to go out with one. I will continue my counseling as long as I have insurance. So that will be some help I guess And I can drop in here sometimes for a pick me up. well see ya around
Me BS32 WH 31
d-DAY may 30, 05
2DD ages 12&2
Headed for D fast
reside in KY
Married 4 years together 8
Go figure thinks he is a good father 4 days a month.
Left our home moved in with OW
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Joanna -
Lots of us went thru the same thing (thinking of puking) about the opposite sex. But that will go away soon. They are not all bad.
Like you, my first husband was a cheater too. I think we need to spend the time figuring out why we are attracted to these guys.
Did you ever see any warning signs in either of them?
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