Well, the OW is now jealous of ME! She feels threatened by ME! She does not want H to talk to ME! She thinks he is going to have an affair on her with ME!

What in the H*** is this woman thinking? She doesn't want him calling me? We have three kids together!

She feels threatened by ME? Well, I guess she wouldn't feel threatened had she kept her pants up and not walked into my marriage!

She thinks we are going to have an AFFAIR??? Is that possible to have an affair with your own HUSBAND <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

AND...she is still accusing me of calling her! H asked her point blank...he said to her "I know you went into my phone and listened to my messages and heard one from my wife and that is where you got all your info from...my wife isn't calling you"

She said "oh no, someone is calling me...and I think it is her"

I told him I would NEVER call her...and if I did...I would not try to hide it..I would flat out call her!

Is this how it is in an Affair relationship! What a way to live...always feeling threatened by the wife of your boyfriend and wondering if your BF is going to spend too much time talking to or seeing his wife!

OMG!

Yep, that is exactly how it is. Relationships born of deception also live in deception with suspicion of deception and die from real or perceived deception.

Sucks to be them eh?

I guess my question is how you know any of this? I'm supposing hubby is telling you. And, of course, my next question is why are you allowing him to do so?

He's left you are another woman. This is HIS problem, not YOUR problem, so don't talk to him about the problems he's having with his hussy. Just tell him to deal with her and not involve you in the mess.

I told my W that when she speaks to me, she is not to ever mention her OM. I don't care what he say, does, thinks, believes, etc. She complained that I wasn't being reasonable, since he's a part of her life and, after all, he's such a wonderful guy. <eyes rolling> I told her that "wonderful guys" don't screw around with married women, so she could live in that fantasy all alone; I want no part of it.

Your STBX is in for a hard ride. He's involved with a woman who would take another woman's man and she is involved with a known cheater. Their relationship will never be a good one. I suppose you can take some perverse comfort in that fact.