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Please tell me all you can about how you dealt with withdrawal from a mostly EA, both as a WS and BS.
Did the WS turn to alcohol or anything like that? Did the WS feel like they made the wrong choice in trying to make the marriage work? Is that just a part of withdrawl?
How did the BS deal with WS? Did you do anything specific to help the WS get through withdrawal?
Thanks!
BW - me - 35
WH - 35
together 18 yrs, married 10yrs
2 DD - ages 5, 2
d-day 1 - 9/25/04 (EA)
d-day 2 - 6/2/05 (PA same OW)
NC (in person) - 7/14/05 - but accidently bumps into at work
NC broken 8/30 after exposure
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2dogmom, I’ve bumped a thread for you on withdrawal. The name of the thread is ”A quick start guide on withdrawal for FWS’s and BS’s”. Please take a look at it. I’m sure it will help to answer many of your questions.
Blessings,
Suzet
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Thanks, I will check it out.
BW - me - 35
WH - 35
together 18 yrs, married 10yrs
2 DD - ages 5, 2
d-day 1 - 9/25/04 (EA)
d-day 2 - 6/2/05 (PA same OW)
NC (in person) - 7/14/05 - but accidently bumps into at work
NC broken 8/30 after exposure
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A quick start guide on withdrawal for FWS’s and BS’s2dogmom, I’ve decided to put the direct link on your thread as well. Posts get so easily buried here on MB and if you want to read it, you can easily find it by just clicking on the link! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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