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(Wild you better be reading too!) I'm glad this got bumped - I don't remember seeing it in July. Means more now that it would have then I think. I still have the same arguments in regards to the WHY - I don't believe I can examine my own responsibility without knowing WHY something happened. It is about control - I'll give you that this time. "BUT" it is control over myself - why did it happen - what part do I have to own up to - and how do I not do the same thing again. It's about learning from past mistakes. Fox
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This was -so- helpful.
Thank you BR for posting this.
Me - 32
DS - 5
DD - 13
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D final 12-8-08
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This is a great post BR. Thank you.
I have to admit, I had read parts of your story before, you are a prime example of learning about yourself and blazing your own trail.
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I'm trying to "bump" something, don't know if it will work, but I found it by searching "detachment" and it is such a good post that I though others that are fairly new to the board should read it as well... now I'm off to search for buyers/renters... and the other one Ace mentioned.
Go to page 1 of this thread to read a very helpful post!!
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Thank you Serenity.
Happy New Year
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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This is some good stuff to "chew" on. I see some good in it, and think that Lots of it will help in the coming weeks, as I take this journey myself.....Thank you
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Thank you for posting this. There is a lot of good information and I am going to read it over and over again.
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It's been a long, long time......bump
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