Well, as I posted a few days ago my inlaws (MIL and SIL) are here from Alaska to talk with WH. My H is working today and they took the kids for the day. This evening we will talk so I can give them the rest of the information of the situation. I truly pray they can get some answers, honest answers, out of him. I will be going to my mothers tues - wed so they all have time alone with out me around to talk. I have also given my MIL a Plan B type of letter to give to H and to have him read it while she is there so I know he did. (he has already moved out to stay with family friends). I don't know that our marriage can be saved but even if not my H is and has been on such a self destructive path. Hopefully someone in his family can help by intervening. They care enough about him to come all the way here from Alaska! That is a loooooong long way since we live in the new england states!

This whole thing is so wrong and so sad. OW's stbxh is just destroyed over this A. It is terrible to see a grown man become nothing but a pile of mush because he is so distraught. And his wife and my H caused it. how can 2 people have no consideration at all for others feelings or families? how can they be so evil and selfish? and if my H says he knows this is all wrong but he has feelings for this ow and wants to pursue something with her i think i will hurl. well, MIL is armed with all of the details, like them or not, so my H is going to have to answer her somehow. She will fill me in when I get back on Wednesday. And if they want to have a talk with MIL, me , and H then, that is ok too.

Please just keep my family in your thoughts during this week. I pray we can help my H out even if it doesn't save our marriage. Thank you, mlhb