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Found out that my husband had an affair 6 months ago during his overseas secondment. Have been trying to work at the marriage over these 6 months but find that there is not much progress.
Just told him that I wanted divorce as he kept saying that he can't revive the feelings for me. He just treats me like a friend.
I feel very confused. Going to a lawyer this Thu. Don't know whether I made the right decision. Still miss him. Why am I so silly?
Is my marriage doomed? Can't believe myself, financially independent yet emotionally so weak.
Should I let him stay in matrimonial home?
Me (33)
WH (31)
Dday 8 Feb 2005
No kids
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Hmmm. Is the affair over? Sounds like it may be still going on.
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Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 85
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Crossroads, you should post this in the Just Found Out section where you will get more support.
If you are feeling very confused you shouldn't make any life changing decisions like Divorce. You should read as much as you can here on the Site including the Plan A articles and post and get support.
Treating a Spouse like a friend is actually common, as is saying count revive feelings. As believer says Affair might still be going on.
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