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Hi everyone.Don't want to explain my sitch again, but you can check my other posts. WW had an affair for 6 weeks. NC established 10 days ago.
My ww has been home for 2 weeks after a ten day separation. During the separation I removed all the marriage and happy couple pictures from the walls. I could not look at them. I don't feel so bad anymore and I am wondering if it's ok to start putting back up again? Would this send the wrong message during my plan A? Should I just put up one at a time over a long period of time or just never put them up again? I am ver confused about this.
Her parents are in bad health and don't know about our problems. The rest of her family (6 sisters and 12 friends know) and mine know. But her parents saw that the pictures were gone. I am worried about this. I want to tell them,but it might kill them (literaly).

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I would keep them in boxes and make a ceremony out of bringing them out and displaying them again...but wait. Sometimes NC doesn't stick....


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Yeah, that's my other worry. she can't really hurt me anymore than she has, and It's not like I would be suprised if she contacted om.. Honestly sometimes I feel like the best idea is making her the om headache.HA HA HA.We have no kids and I have established other living options to protect myself if she just vanishes with the scumbag one day.It's not like I can't meet another woman, there everywhere I go.As a mater of fact I ran into a gorgeous woman in the drug store that attempted to pick up on me. It was hard to resist considering the circunmstances, but I was strong.Anyway I am way off topic here. Thanks for the input.


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