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think we had good day yesterday. still nc as far as i know. he was up for promotion at work which seemed to be deciding factor for him to stay at current job. did not get promotion. he has been talking seriously about changing jobs. this morning he had some things he needed to do alone. how do i learn to trust him when he leaves house atthis point. i hate this sick feeling, wondering if hes going to call her when he leaves house.

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You don't learn, he needs to do the work to regain your trust. It w/b beyond a doubt if it is for real.

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Do you know how to check the cellphone history? If he has called her, it will be listed unless he has deleted the history. Then you'll know he's hiding something.

I can't think of anything he would NEED to do alone on a Saturday morning that couldn't involve you, especially if he is trying to rebuild a trusting relationship. He should tell you exactly what he is doing to set your mind at ease. You have every right to doubt him at this stage. TT


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