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I FOUND OUT THAT MY H OF THREE YEARS HAD AN A AND CONCIEVED TWO POSSIBLE OC. I HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH HIM, EVIL MIL, OW AND LOTS OF OTHER DRAMA SINCE DDAY 7-18-05. I AM GETTING TIRED AND DEPRESSED. WE HAVE THREE CHILDREN TOGETHER AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR NINE YEARS. I AM CONFUSED ABOUT WHEN TO IMPLEMENT PLAN B. I HAVE TRIED PLAN A AND THE NC THING IS NOT WORKING AT ALL. THE MIL SAYS THAT ITS MY FAULT AND SO DOES THE OW (BECAUSE I WAS NOT KEEPING MY H SATISFIED) TOTAL B.S. THERE CONTINUES TO BE CONTACT DESPITE ME ASKING THAT I AM MADE AWARE. HE STILL CONTINUES TO HIDE AND LIE, BUT HE DOES NOT WANT TO LEAVE HOME. HE COMES HOME NOW BEFORE LATE, HE CALLS AND HE DOES EVERYTHING I ASK EXCEPT NC. I AM GETTING FED UP WITH THE OW AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. ANY ADVICE?
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Turn OFF your CAPS lock key. Very difficult to read.
Have you read "Surviving An Affair"?
I HAVE TRIED PLAN A AND THE NC THING IS NOT WORKING AT ALL.
Did he agree to no contact and did he write a no contact letter, which you mailed?
Why are you dealing in any way with the ow?
Prayers & God Bless!
Chris
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yes. i have read that. i am in contact with her because she calls my job, my cell# my h cell# and even my MIL and then the MIL calls me to tell me all over again that the a was all my fault. He agreed to nc but he claims that she does not call often and that she only calls when the oc need something but at 2 am (be serious) he has not done a nc letter (he still has not done a dna test yet)
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