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Re: called OM's Wife
spinmaker #1485657 10/12/05 12:30 PM
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good deal! I think you will get alot out of it.

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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spinmaker #1485658 10/12/05 01:08 PM
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As one person said, all you can do is all you can do. You just keep trying and don't give up until you know it's hopeless. There are many praying for you and many who have you in their thoughts. Hang in there!
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I spoke w/ Steve Harley the other day..it was encouraging..however the WW is leaving for Washington DC tomorrow for a conference that i know the OM will be at..she is doing all the same things she did before her last trip away (primping and preening - excited and happy) I know - in my gut - that they intend to be together. As long as OM is in -I'm out. I thought of hiring a PI to gather info for OMW but that may be too little too late. I haven't been sleeping and can't consintrate on anything...it's killing me!!
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Spinmaker - was the OM able to convince his W you were lying? I'm amazed she wouldn't mind them being at a conference together.

I agree with everyone else, don't you dare move out. She is the one stepping outside the M, she should move. Keep documentation of what is going on, in case it helps you at a later day. Like, document this trip that MM is also going on.

I feel for you, your wife is being cruel. How would she feel to be on the receiving end of such treatment?

I wish you the best of luck. Try to get out and do something this weekend. I know we women pamper ourselves to get stress relief. Is there anything you could do? I can't recall, it seems like you have children. Is there something fun you could take them to do? You have to show your W this isn't going to stop you from living.
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OM convinced his wife that he was being pursued against his will that he has no intention of a relationship - victim so to speak. However I'm convinced (without hard evidence) that this renedevous is mutual. How do I stop it! I can't stop my wife
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