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I got my cell phone bill in for this month. Now I knew my w/h would not be dumb enough to call o/w on the personal cell phone, but I figured o/w could call in and I would never know because our bills do not show incoming phone numbers.
I played detective and went over cell phone, cross checking with all calls made by me to husband and I am happy to say there has been no contact, via calls coming in. Almost all calls coming in are mine.
I knew my husband had been on the road to recovery but this confirmed what I already felt in my gut.
I can't explain how happy and relieved I am.
I will still keep on vigilence until I get a few more months under my belt but I do feel confident that our marriage is going to make it.
I am almost ready to change w/h to f/w/h. We are making such good progress. When he finally gets to the point where he can talk to me, I will know we are really on the road to recovery.
W/H and I are now laughing and goofing around, his mom is now relaxed and enjoying the new facility, and w/h is actually starting to come around his mom's more and is not so upset, actually is starting to joke around with the residents and is enjoying his visits with them while visiting his mom.
Life is starting to turn back to normal, now if I could just start bringing in some money, life will truly be getting better.
What a difference a month makes.
The sun is coming out.
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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That is great that you can confirm NC.
Just a suggestion for the future though. If you use Cingular for your cell phone, you can get detailed billing that shows all of the numbers called and all of the numbers calling in. You can even get up-to-date call history online.
When I broke NC, I hated that feature. But now I am really glad that we have it because my H can know for sure that I am not breaking NC ever again.
Me, the WS, 25
My H, the BS, 25
Married Sept 2003
Served with D papers Aug 2005, but still hoping to make it work
History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again.
--Maya Angelou
Proud of the woman that I have become, not the events that made me become that woman.
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I am truly happy for you. enjoy.
married 21
Together 26 -
OW 2yrs, he worked with her and found secret e-mail account.The first cut is the deepest.
just found out H is a serial cheater - total cut to pieces now- saw a D lawyer today.
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Great news for you!!!
I am so glad that you got some positive confirmation.
Me-41 BS (FWS) DH-41 WS (FBS) 2DD's- 10 and 12 Married 15 years Separated for 2 years after my A Reconciled for 1 year before his A D-day for his A 8/23/05 WH moved out 9/16/05 Divorce final 1/23/07 Affair ended or month or so later My Story
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Yay!!!! A success story in the making. I am happy for you & am glad that you have not had to go through months of Plan A agony and then into Plan B.
I will keep sending positive thoughts your way!!
Kimberly
D-Day May 14th
DS age 6
Married 13 years
Plan B 10-11-05
D-Day May 14th, 2005
Married 16 Years
DS age 8
6 months Plan A
Plan B 10-11-05, H moved back in June 2007, Very False Recovery.
2nd Day-Day 7/7/08 Kicked WH Out.
Plan B for my sanity
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Robert Brault
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This is great news! Its great to hear something positive for once! I am happy for you. Keep us posted :O) Take care~
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