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any ideas how we explain to our grandkids, ages 7 and4 and 3 we have a almost 1year old but shell just grow up w oc so will be used to it. more my concern is the two older ones.there so young to understand that their papa was with such
a young girl. I want to do this right. any suggestions?
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Pardon my ignorance of your situation, but how old is OC now, and do you and your H plan to have visitation with OC?
NTL
BW 43 me
FWH 39
M 1992; DD 18. 13
OC 8-05 - no contact
In recovery 8 years
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hi ntl,
our oc hasnt been born yet, and yes we do plan on having contact. I know, its probably best to wait untill baby is born and have test done to make sure its his. I just feel that it is, and i want to be adjusted to the situation before baby comes.
thankyou
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I asked you in anthoer post when you said you wished you could have a child with your husband if you were infertertle. You just answered my question, so please disregard it. Sorry. You guys have grown children w/grandkids.
Aka Marysway
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yes I had wished that I could have one with my h cause although I have his s I wasnt with him during p and delivery. My other childrens d was there when our children were born, its an emotional bonding time. i had always regretted getting tubes tied cause i lost out on this bonding time with my h. Im sure it really doesnt matter, cause I am bonded w h.
he did tell me I could get tubes untied and he would be excited if it was me pregnant. But relly, that is totally crazy for me to have one at my age. I just hurt that its someone else carring my hb and not me. I am a HIGHLY EMOTIONAL PERSON. so that doesnt help. I feel pain easily. Ill tell you whats really crazy, I feel so much oneness with my h yet theres a part of me that really hopes its not his. mainly cause i dont want all the drama and probles that come with it. yet I also feel that if its not his im going to go through a loss. Ive already started looking at baby stuff. Is that all crazy or what?
thanks for being there
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