My husband who is in Canada on the bussiness trip with the OW actually was ok with me flying out to Canada to meet up with him. The tickets were $700.00 and we decided that it wasn't worth it for a day or two. He said he had called it off with her, but I know he was still in contact with her. Maybe I should have went. Instead I exposed while he was in Canada with OW and he hasn't talked to me since, I just know that he is in Canada having a good time with her. Not sure if he is going to leave when he comes home.

He probably isn't having as good of a time as you might imagine. I am sure he probably has some reservations going through his head at this point as to what might happen when he comes home.

duncad, is the OW married? Are there any exposure opportunities on her side? If there are, you may as well get it done now and get your money's worth. Any idea who her parents are?

Yes the OW is married, Her husband is the first person that I exposed to on DDay. I have kept in contact with him and he says he as been talking to a lawyer and is going to move out, he's looking for a place.

This is the longest h has gone without calling me; only a day and half but seems longer. I have called him but he won't answer his phone. He may have found out I told his boss not sure, I would think his boss would wait till he returned to work

I talked to his mom tonight, and she asked me how it was doing. I told her good considering the circumstances. We are planning a shower for his sister this saturday at my house, the day after he returns, if he returns.
Maybe this will help my plan A

When his mom called him two days ago and said I heard something about you and another woman, he told her he had to go because of work, I don't think hes talk to her since.