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W/H had to work out of town tonight, and won't be home til tommorrow. I took this opportunity to: 1) Take myself out to mexican food restaurant for dinner. 2) I splurged and took myself to a movie, "Flight". I had a great time just being out and didn't feel self conscience at all. W/H called around 9:00 pm while I was at the restaurant. His first words out of his mouth were "where are you at?" I told him I went out to dinner. He questioned me whether I went out with dd. I told him no, I was out by myself. I could tell he was a little agitated when he asked me where I was. (shrugging my shoulders) oh, well. Who knows what goes through the mind of the xws. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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ATTAGIRL !
When I started dressing up and going out Squid was OBSESSED that I might be with another woman. And I way very cagey in my replies. "You have nothing to worry about", "I'm not having an affair". etc.
Well done !
Best to go out with friends though. Enjoying in company soothes the soul IME.
WELL DONE ! Keep it up !
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way to go girl!!!
Feels good to love yourself, doesn't it?
Loni
BW (me)46, XH 46, OW 42 (former friend)
DS26, DD23, DS21, SS17, SS27
EA since 2/04? PA?
He filed for divorce 3/8/06.
OW divorce final 3/10/06.
He left 3/13/06, "to think"
Gave me letter from lawyer on 3/17/06.
Divorce final 9/1/2006.
Happily remarried to new H 6/7/08
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PLAN D: finalized!
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Thanks Bobpure, It felt good. I hate to admit it but I don't have any friends in town. I have friends where I go to school 40 miles from home. We try to go out to dinner and lunch every chance we get. I have been a hermit for the past 23 years as a stay at home mom. You and all the wonderful friends here have opened my eyes to the fact that there is a whole life out there I need to live and explore. One day at a time. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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way to go girl!!!
Feels good to love yourself, doesn't it?
Loni Yes it does Loni. Thank you.
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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I will definately try!! One day at a time.
In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.
Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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