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Well as of about 6 weeks ago she called her lawyer and ended the divorce. I am happy but a bit confused as to why she would suddenly do this. Things are going fine but I am afraid that it will take a long time before I will be able to be as warm as I once was. It has been a long time since my last post and I just wanted to check in and let those who helped me so much know that I am still around. I guess that it is now off to the recovery board! Thanks!
Trying to work things out! (I hope this works...)
WW-23
Me-26
After multiple EAs and multiple PAs she seems to have come crashing back to earth in flames.
Here I am again cleaning up the mess.....
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It's good to hear that someone has good news to report around here. I'm glad to hear things may be looking up a bit!
Not everyone gets a second chance. If you are afforded a second chance, make the most out of it.
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Keep reading the MB principles and implement them. YOu can have a better marriage than you ever imagined. I hope you do.
It was a marriage that never really started.
H: Conflict Avoider, NPD No communication skills (Confirmed by MC) Me: Enabler
Sep'd 12/01, D'd 08/03.
My joys and the light of my life: DD 11, DD 9
*Approach life and situations from the point of love - not from fear.*
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Confused, this is great news. Why not start posting on the Emotional Needs board? You'll find good ideas for making things better than ever.
Mrs. W8ing
Burned-out W, 41, ENFJ married to INTJ. Blender family of 7 years w/3 teens. H has been injured/ill and in college for 6 years. Co-parenting for 11 years w/XWH who married A #4 of 5.
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