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HI ALL...

There is a MB'er called dazednconfusedks that had a really bad setback today.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...part=1&vc=1

(His story)


I thought I would light a candle for him to symbolize God's divine light shining on their Marriage.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

I'm from NH USA..... so NH USA is in.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
It would be nice to see ALL FIFTY STATES represented here... and ANY COUNTRY....... to light a candle for them.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

Come on guys it'll be fun <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />and will let Dazed see we're here for him.....and to let God know we CARE about Marriage.....

POST A CANDLE!!!!

GOOD LUCK AND PRAYERS FRANK

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Candle burning for you, DAZED .. in MISSOURI, USA!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

And prayers going strong too!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />


Thinking of you Dazed, <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
~ Kathie

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Dazed a candle for you from Oklahoma...... USA <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Keeping you in my prayers....


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BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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I'm sure that I will be one of many from California sending wishes of strength and comfort your way. May God guide you and your family on this journey.

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Hey Daz,

a candle burning for you in Maryland


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I flicked my Bic for ya' here in Michigan.

Mr. Wondering


FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered

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Dazed, a candle burning for you in South-Africa. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Prayers and blessings to you...may He comfort you and give you peace during this very difficult time.

Suzet

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Here's one lit from Massachusetts.

And it's a cranberry chutney one too! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Prayers to you dazed~

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BW(me)40 DDay 10/11/03 Divorcing 'The Reformer'- enneagram type 1 ~Let Higher Minds Prevail~ --------------- ~Life isn't complicated,we make it that way~
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Light here from NC


Me = FBS age 51
FWH = age 51
M 25 years, 2 children 16 and 20
D-Day 5/19/05
Recovered and happy
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Representing Tennessee here!

(You guys are great!)


Me-41 BS (FWS)
DH-41 WS (FBS)
2DD's- 10 and 12
Married 15 years
Separated for 2 years after my A
Reconciled for 1 year before his A
D-day for his A 8/23/05
WH moved out 9/16/05
Divorce final 1/23/07
Affair ended or month or so later
My Story
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I used my Aim-n-flame on one here in Idaho for you, dazed. You are not alone, and you will get through this.

Spidey


But that's totally, FEATHER PLUCKIN', INSANE!!!
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There is a glow for you and yours coming from Nebraska.


I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant. - Robert McCloskey
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One here in the UK, too.

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Another flic of the bic and a prayer coming from Michigan (U.P.), for you Dazed.

Hang on brother. (((((Dazed)))))

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A candle is lit in Florida.


Married 1976
Me:BS
Him:FWS
MB Weekend March 2003
2 S's: '77 & '80, 1 D: '82
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(((((((((((((Dazed:):):):)))))))))

New York is burning brightly for you too!


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dazed, I been catching up on your story and know you are having a tough time right now so I'm praying for you and you DD.

I will light a candle for you here in Canada!


Married 10 years, Legally Seperated Aug 2,2006
1 year of Plan A followed by 1 year of Plan B...
...now stepping towards recovery?????
BH 37(me), WW 35, DB 7 & DD 5
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My struggle with an EA
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A candle is burning in Texas for you and lots of prayers being said.


BS 48 me WH 45 married 23 years DDay JULY 2005 WH moved out Sept 2005 and moved in w/ow a month later DD 28 DS 21
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A third candle in Michigan.

God Bless you Dazed

Loni


BW (me)46, XH 46, OW 42 (former friend)
DS26, DD23, DS21, SS17, SS27
EA since 2/04? PA?
He filed for divorce 3/8/06.
OW divorce final 3/10/06.
He left 3/13/06, "to think"
Gave me letter from lawyer on 3/17/06.
Divorce final 9/1/2006.
Happily remarried to new H 6/7/08
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Candle lit in Illinois.

(Even though we're not allowed to have candles in on-campus housing. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />)


ncn BS - 27 (me) WW - 23 (living with OM since 9/16) OM - 32 (OMW - 33) no kids/pets in either marriage d-day - 9/12/05 EA/PA - 6/05-present Exposed to OMW 10/5/05, Exposed to ILs 10/18/05
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