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I'm sorry Cy.
Regardless,I hope you are able to enjoy the Thanksgiving holiday with your family and find some peace.You so deserve it.
Take care~
O
BW(me)40
DDay 10/11/03
Divorcing
'The Reformer'- enneagram type 1
~Let Higher Minds Prevail~
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~Life isn't complicated,we make it that way~
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Cy...I am really sorry that it turned out this way...the prayer for clear direction was answered, but not in the way that you might have hoped...it is still very hurtful even though it gives you a clear path to proceed...no regrets, Cy, buddy. You have done so much good towards your marriage, yourself and MB..I am grieving with you, but when you are ready, hold your head up high.
Try to have a pleasant holiday with your family...seek their comfort and take care of yourself. ss
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Cy, I am so sorry. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />
Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)
Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
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You believe easily what you hope for ernestly. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />
Happy Thanksgiving to all my friends at MB
Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle
You believe easily what you hope for ernestly
Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
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Hi, Cyman.
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You believe easily what you hope for ernestly.
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Self-inflicted blindness is the bane of humanity.
Happy thanksgiving, Cy.
God bless,
Gimble
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
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You believe easily what you hope for ernestly. Sometimes a sad truth. I think that we should be thankful that our hearts are still tender. Still worthy of protecting. ...sending you a gentle and warm shield of protection... and thanksgiving think about the word thanksgiving its is lovely, don't you think?
Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)
Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
Redhat
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[color:"purple"]I think that we should be thankful that our hearts are still tender.
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thank you for such a lovely remark
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