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Sleepless,
I completely understand erasing your information. I normally stand up for the BW's on the other board, and I won't stop. Some of the comments are ridiculous, but I will always stand for whats right.
Take care, and I look forward to hearing all the positive things that come about in your life.
CH
April - Affair
May - OW tells H that she's pregnant
June - OW's H calls to inform me of affair and pregnancy
August - Present - Working diligently on marriage. In counseling at church.
December - OC Born - NO CONTACT!
May - DNA TEST NEGATIVE - MY H IS NOT THE FATHER. THANK GOD.
My new Title - BS w/ OCS (Betrayed Wife with Other Child Scare)
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Sleepless, i am sorry that some people take such purile delight in mocking the pain of others. i understand why you have removed your posts. it is a shame becuase i think that they were valuable not just for you later on, but for others who lurk and might be in the same situation. But you gotta do what you gotta do. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I am glad too that you finally got the peices of the puzzle you needed to find some peace in all of this. It is hard to hear those sorts of details but at least now you know you are coming from a position of knowledge. The OW just lost her last hold over you. she cant hurt you anymore. Now go and heal! lots of love Carolyn
BW -33 (Me)
WH-38
M- 4 years/together 10
OC (girl) born 03/03
D-Day 08/02
True friends stab you in the front - Oscar Wilde
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Hey don't sweat it hun. Some of those OW get amnesia themselves, they conveniently forget how crappy MM treats them and continue to eat up any crumbs they get thrown their way.
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lol. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
BW -33 (Me)
WH-38
M- 4 years/together 10
OC (girl) born 03/03
D-Day 08/02
True friends stab you in the front - Oscar Wilde
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LOVE this saying....LOVE IT!!!!
ALL OW DON'T RESPOND OR COMMENT ON ANYTHING I POST EVER. I'M NOT HERE TO SPEAK TO U!
I am here to speak to other BSs that Can relate to my situation and OUR shared experiences.
I COULD CARE LESS WHAT ANY OW HAS TO SAY ABOUT ANYTHING, EVER!
Me: BS
Husband had affair-6 months 2003
OC born 7/04
No Contact
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ok savannah
What is going on with you?
You posted on a thread geared toward myself before and did not answer anything there.
Now you are quoting me... I am sorry but I have to feel you may not be on the up and up.
I would like to know if you have a problem with me?
ALL OW DON'T RESPOND OR COMMENT ON ANYTHING I POST EVER. I'M NOT HERE TO SPEAK TO U!
I am here to speak to other BSs that Can relate to my situation and OUR shared experiences.
I COULD CARE LESS WHAT ANY OW HAS TO SAY ABOUT ANYTHING, EVER!
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