Well, I actually kicked him out, (thinking he would fight to stay) and when I asked him to come back he said no...

He moved his OW into our new motorhome 6 days after he left us... So, my suspisions of his affair were correct...

He left our 6 wk old baby girl, our 19 month old son...and now doesn't want anything to do with my teens...(Stbx was the only father they knew!)

The last time he seen the babies was when my father took them to see him...for a total of 6 hours on Sept. 11....

The OW must be pretty amazing for him to leave everything we had behind...

He intoduced my stepson 7 yrs old to the OW 6 days later too. Took his son and new woman camping!!!

He left me with all the bills...
He doesn't pay me child support/spousal support.

On Dec 17, Stbx and Ow held family Xmas on MIL's side... ( I hope nobody showed)...Mil has welcomed her into her life...doesn't agree with Stbx, but it is her son right!!?

So, here I sit with 4 children, while he is out there enjoying the freedom without kids/responsibility..etc.etc.

At least this Xmas, I will be with my children and my family is all coming here...

I hope that Stbx and Ow have a terrible Xmas...

That's my story in a nutshell! Things are getting better, I was diagnosed with Bi-polar after he left...and the medication has been so helpful to me...

"Think of a breakup this way: you're one step closer to the one you're meant to be with."