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#1543870 12/21/05 11:38 AM
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Did anyone see the report of a 40 something man returning from Iraq and was murdered by his 26 year old wife?

Apparently she is being chrarged in the murder of her husband along with the young student she was having an affair with while her husband was away.

Disgusting.

What is your opinion on the subject?


In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.

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Let me get this straight... the wife was having an A with a younger student so she decided to kill her H and her boyfriend once the H came back to town?

OK, so now everything makes perfect sense.


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I guess she's Plan B'ing both of them!!


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I guess she's Plan B'ing both of them!!


Ba-dum-bump. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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can I borrow her for a day?


married 21
Together 26 -
OW 2yrs, he worked with her and found secret e-mail account.The first cut is the deepest.
just found out H is a serial cheater - total cut to pieces now- saw a D lawyer today.
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Bwahahahaha!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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Now that's a plan D .


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Ok, I have to clear something up.

The wife did not kill the boyfriend. They suspect the boyfriend assisted her in killing the husband. She and the college student were living together in her house while her husband was away.

She made a 911 call, franticly saying she and her husband had been shot by an assailant.


In the end, I have nothing to lose but everything to gain, by trying to save my marriage.

Me, betrayed wife 46
Former Wandering Husband, 51 E/A 2005
28 years of marriage
DD 26, DS 24
O/W aka, Rat 29, A-D Assisted Living
Discovery 8-20-05 Recovery ongoing.
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this brings to mind for me that my family is very fearful that my H and OW will "off me" because i still have my H as my beneficiary in all of my policies...i'm worth much more dead than alive as most of us are

i guess anything is possible...heck i never thought he would cheat on me. cheat on me again after he promised not to, or leave me fro a married OW with kids and he did all of that so....i guess i should be checking under the hood when i start the car


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