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I probably know the answer. And I know the 2x4s will fly from others.
My wh said "Do you think I'm loving this going back and forth I am miserable. I love you guys (me and the kids), I love you, I love m---my old house (her name starts with m and the old house is where they live together)" I said you were going to say ow he denied it and I just said we need to go ahead and get divorced so you can go get married to her (light conversation not argumentive) and he just said I'm crazy.
I know I should not buy into all this and stay the D course thinking but ....... Do you think he is truly miserable or is he just playing me?
Thanks Tdr -- (ps I may not be able to respond back until tomorrow AM).
BS me 38
WH 34
OW 28
DDay-03/17/04
M 10 yrs
DS 10, DD, 7
OW and WH broke up Aug 07
WH home ...Nothings changed no remorse I hate everyminute of him being home I want out!!!!
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I think he feels truly entitled to have 2 women. And why wouldn't he? There is no one to stop him. tdr, why are you volunteering for such treatment? You are not a victim, but a volunteer.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Hi tdr - just wanted to say hello. ML is right - your WH enjoys having you both. He thinks he can continue this forever?? Don't let him!
I'm wishing you a Happy and Peaceful holiday....
Kim
D-Day May 14th, 2005
Married 16 Years
DS age 8
6 months Plan A
Plan B 10-11-05, H moved back in June 2007, Very False Recovery.
2nd Day-Day 7/7/08 Kicked WH Out.
Plan B for my sanity
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Robert Brault
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