my h calls and says he is on his way over. It use to take him 30 minutes or less to get here. Now it takes between 1 to 2 hours and sometimes longer. I know that he has to take the dog out before he comes but that never delayed him and because the ow lives in his apartments, my imagination just goes wild and by the time he gets here I am UPSET. He says well I took a shower and I had a phone call or one of his male friends talk to him. Seems like he is missing for several hours at a time. Yesterday I called him several times and he didn't answer so 3-4 hours later he says he was asleep <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />