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WOW!! I just realized this as my heart was beating while I was posting to Stella.. Thanks to all of you that have supported me and helped me get to this place. Folks on this forum have been with me during some of my darkest hours... To those of you that are struggling with the EVILNESS and AWFULNESS of infidelity, I say DO NOT GIVE UP HOPE... Stay in the fight...not just for your marriage..but FOR YOURSELF... I pray for you the happiness that WE HAVE FOUND... I still say ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE IF YOU BELIEVE... At this time, 3 years ago, my situation seemed hopeless. Right this minute, as I am typing, my H is talking to me on the phone and he has been calling me all day long. As he ends each conversation, he says I LOVE YOU...He is so excited about our plans for tomorrow... I wish I had the words to express all the gratitude that I have for all of you here... That's why I do my very best to GIVE BACK.. HAPPY NEW YEAR!! IT'S GOT TO KEEP GETTING BETTER AND BETTER FOR ALL OF US... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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Mimi,
Good for you.I know in two yrs i will be as happy as you.I am in over a yr.12-26-04.My H has done nothing but make me happy.Yes i still get sad,but no more on a daily basis.Go out and have a great night.I will be celabrating with my H whom i love more than anything and my DS12 and DD7 whom i love more than anything.
I will raise my glass of apple juice,and say to us,to us, to us,now and forever
My H too always hangs up with those three little words.I don't ever thiunk i heard them so much.I will never get sick of them either.
#1mom
Me BW 31
Him FWH 30
Married 13yrs
D-day 12/04
NC right away
New job
Some set backs due to whole truth coming out over a few months.Other wise great first and only recovery.
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I'm thankful to have broken up their night of fun..as my H left her in the hotel room after I showed up.. My lasting regrets..but God knows best.. I DIDN'T GET TO HER TO WHIP HER BUTT...I should have waited until she left..Instead I left after he did... When she called me to say: "WHO ARE YOU THE F'ING FBI?" I should have responded back: "NO, I'M HIS WIFE..YOU ARE A HO.." Steve Harley said that told him a lot about her..I was so shocked at how rough she talked... OH WELL..wanted to share this bit of history and regret with you... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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All the nest for the New Year!
And pease keep repaeting your message, it gives us BS hope!
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"Never argue with idiots. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
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You've come a long way, baby! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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congratulations Mimi and to your H also!!!
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I DIDN'T GET TO HER TO WHIP HER BUTT...I should have waited until she left..Instead I left after he did... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> What are your plans? What will you do tomorrow to celebrate? Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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We are going to a SWANKY restaurant.. WINING AND DINING!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> Have fun!!! Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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I've got to think of an "OUTFIT"... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Congratulations Mimi !!
You are a blessing to us all here.
Enjoy every moment with your H.
My Best regards - Car
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Mimi,
Congrats to and your H for making it through this awful thing....
The power of love is strong and you Mimi fought a brillant battle and won.....
You deserve the happiness you have and will continue to have.
You are admired and respected by many on this board. You help those of us still battling get through the lonely days and nights. You give us hope when all looks lost.
Thank You from the bottom of my heart for all of your support and wise words....
God Bless you and your H......
Love ya girl
Hurting
BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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Hurting: You and others still struggling help me, too..more than you know... It helps me to continue to FIGHT INFIDELITY... It's almost like a CRUSADE or MISSION to me..adds additional PURPOSE to my life.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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AWESOME! So happy for you two <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> And I have wondered..why are so many WS seeming to become even seemingly crazier wtih DDays and wacky behavior around the holidays?
me:37 BS; s:7;
xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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And I have wondered..why are so many WS seeming to become even seemingly crazier wtih DDays and wacky behavior around the holidays?
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I think it's trying to maintain the fantasy..
FOW, in my case, liked "CELEBRATIONS"..YUK..
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They like to think they've done something...usually it's stupid. My xh's ow/w just longs soooo much for legitimacy. I have made it my perogative and promise TO DENY HER IT FOREVER!
me:37 BS; s:7;
xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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We made 10 years .... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> and we ~cough~cough~ "celebrated" D-day in a FINE WAY <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> good for you Mimi <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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FYI....
GODDESSES don't "whip butts"!!
Just stopped by the library for a quick lurk....
Happy New Year...and congrats on where you are..
(Don't want to threadjack...but I'm on my way to look at a used Saab convertible).
Georgia
Formerly G.G. and Jeb
Me: BS 50
She: xW 50
Jeb: Mini Schnauzer
Married: 29 yrs
Children: MM25, MM23
Plan B - 12/06/04
Divorced - 11/17/05
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Happy New Year, and congratulations to the winners! (that would certainly include Mimi and mr. mimi). FGG, Why would anybody sell you a perfectly good Saab convertible? Ask yourself that. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Have you priced out any Swedish auto parts lately? Some friends of mine have an '89 SAAB that they've kept in good order for all these years. The leather by Elmo is still great. But, they've had problems with electrical stuff all along the way. I'm just giving you a hard time. It sounds like a fun car. Are you getting ready to start dating? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Is it red? -AD
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(((((MIMI!))))
Hard to believe sometimes isn't it?
My 3-yr. d-day anniversary was 12-21!
I had a few moments that day but overall not bad. That day 3 years ago was such a dramatic and emotional one....I let XH know what was causing my quietness and he was great about it. He really helped me, by acknowledging it and then helping me to put it aside. I really don't want to waste any time on it!!
Christmas was wonderful, the first one in 2 years that he was here...and now we are looking forward to a great New Year!
XH came home in 05 and he said that for him 05 was a good year because of it, but that 06 was going to be even better because we will be together from the start....
Last year will always be a memorable one for me....the last dying days of the A and XH finally hitting bottom...and then the HEALING and RECOVERY!!
Mimi, you're right....don't ever give up!
Thanks for being there for me and for others!
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