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What's the matter?!?!?!?

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her WH is flipping out ....she is on her thread dealing with it


BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
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D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
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Hello Orchid!

Glad you're online. I need to go off and get some work done. Your input will be most welcome.


"Virtue -- even attempted virtue -- brings light; indulgence brings fog." -- C.S. Lewis
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Sorry for the delay. Had to go run an errand. I just read her thread. Looks like some real tough stuff gotta happen ASAP.

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Hey Orchid,

Just want to say thanks so much for the Reverse Babble link in your sig. It is BRILLIANT. There's a woman you replied to who might as well be married to MY WH, and I wish I'd known about RB earlier so I could have put it to use. (Some of the RB was a hoot, BTW. Kinda made me wish WH rang me up to do some babbling so I could try it out! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />)


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You'll get your chance. Just keep on practicing so when the time comes, it will just flow out real smoothlike. LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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LOL! I'll consider myself in training as from now!

Cue the Rocky soundtrack while I RB to myself around the house!


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Let me know when you want some practice. Some have given samples of the WS babble and we get to practice responses. Kinda fun in a weird BS sort of way. LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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Well, on 24 Dec I had the most ghastly thing happen. I refused to allow S10 to spend Christmas with WH and OW because I don't want him to be a prop while he plays happy families, and he proceeded to ring me up and call me the worst names anyone - let alone the person I thought was the love of my life - I have ever been called. I didn't know about RB then, but something kicked in (maybe it was shock!), and the convo went something like this:

WH: You f*****g b****.
BS: Me. F*****g b****.
WH: You are a f*****g b****.
BS: I am a f*****g b****.
WH: I don't like you.
BS: You don't like me.
WH: You're a f*****g b****.
BS: I'm a f*****g b****.

Whereupon he hung up.

Nice.


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Well that's in the direction of RB. Maybe instead of being verbatim it c/b more like:

WH: You f*****g b****.
BS: Yes you are.
WH: You are a f*****g b****.
BS: I agree u r.
WH: I don't like you.
BS: I don't like u either.
WH: You're a f*****g b****.
BS: U already said that, did you forget?

Whereupon he hung up. Yea, he will hang up anyways. LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> Don't be hurt or shocked, it's the alien babble on the loose. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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Aaahhh just reading this stuff cracks me up! It's great. And you know Orchid... it's the first time I've laughed about it since it happened, which means a LOT. Thanks.


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just letting you know i'm okay

i somehoe fell asleep for 3 hours

i'm getting in the shower

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Just saw this...

Praying that you are OK....

I DON'T THINK THAT YOU SHOULD TALK TO HIM OR SEE HIM AT ALL!!

He is crazy right now..but I agree with neak that a WH can act like this when withdrawn from the drug supply. He has definitely broken up with the OW...and has reached the bottom....

My H evidenced the same CRAZINESS and RANTINGS...even called himself CRAZY....

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just letting you know i'm okay

i somehoe fell asleep for 3 hours

i'm getting in the shower

Glad u got some rest. I went to sleep last night worried about you. I posted on your other thread. I will check on you there.

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