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Dear WTW:
how are you doing these days.
I am thinking of you.
Hugs,




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A during FWH's MLC
Forgive, live, love.
Everyday...

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(((WTW))))sending good wishes


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DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
We are IN love again!!!Sept 2007
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Thanks, everyone.

Things have been fine. Living life - I guess that is the only thing we can do right now, huh? WH is still trying to show me that he is sincere about wanting recovery. I feel like I am still keeping some emotional distance - not on purpose, but because I don't want to get hurt.

I have been very, very tired these last two weeks or so - part of the depression from the whole situation, I am sure. But, I still take my meds and I am sure that it will ease with time. I feel like I don't have any energy to even put into the relationship right now, you know?

We have our first joint 'recovery' appt with our MC tomorrow afternoon. I have a small sense of dread about it because 4 years ago when we had a second appt with the MC, WH made an excuse and didn't go. I couldn't stand it if that happened again. I don't have any reason to think it will, but the little things still make me nervous these days.

I'll let you know how it goes tomorrow. Thanks for all the thoughts and prayers. I hope so desperately that WH has sincerely made the commitment to change and will follow through with what is needed to accomplish it......

Later - WTW

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Hey there,
Thanks for the update. I hope he is really committed to you and the relationship as well. We'll keep praying for you.
Blessings

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Triggers....ugh...let your H know about what triggers you.


Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance!
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Just thinking of you.

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me too...

how are you doing W2W?

I hope you are well and counceling went well with your 2nd joint session. I am praying for you.

Hugs,
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Just wondering how things are going with you. Haven't heard from you for awhile.

Stay Strong!


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