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I saw this referenced in another post and have been looking for there history and what the miracle was. Is there a link to a full story like Bob Pure's or Suzet's guide or Dorry's story.
I would love to see it. I have printed several posts for WW to read. She has filed papers for Divorce but I see a glimmer of hope and doubt in her about what she is doing.
BS (Me) 43
WW or FWW 40
2 DS's 16 and 13
Married 21 Years
D-day 9/10/2005
Exposure 9/11/2005
False NC 9/11/2005
Discovery of Contact 12/23/2005
NC (Letter written Jan 2006)
Divorce Petition Filed Jan 2006
In a holding pattern.
Me Still Handing in there
Phil 4:13
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Waiting,
I am so sorry your WW filed the papers. I know how you feel. its gut wrenching for sure....
Sometimes a glimmer of hope is all we have left. I do hope in your state it does not go as fast as it does here.
I will be praying for you.
Hurting
BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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hurtinginokla Thanks so much for your prayers. I do have a glimmer of hope. I am just looking for success stories for her to read. I have been following your sitch for a long time but have not had a whole lot I could offer. I feel for all the families that break up. Your story makes me want to cry. I have been praying for you too. Especially next week. I know it will be hard. WOL PS Saw your pic on faiths photos, no way you are a Gmama. Your Husband is nuts. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> (purely a platonic harmless compliment from me, have a good weekend)
BS (Me) 43
WW or FWW 40
2 DS's 16 and 13
Married 21 Years
D-day 9/10/2005
Exposure 9/11/2005
False NC 9/11/2005
Discovery of Contact 12/23/2005
NC (Letter written Jan 2006)
Divorce Petition Filed Jan 2006
In a holding pattern.
Me Still Handing in there
Phil 4:13
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BS (Me) 43
WW or FWW 40
2 DS's 16 and 13
Married 21 Years
D-day 9/10/2005
Exposure 9/11/2005
False NC 9/11/2005
Discovery of Contact 12/23/2005
NC (Letter written Jan 2006)
Divorce Petition Filed Jan 2006
In a holding pattern.
Me Still Handing in there
Phil 4:13
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WOL, I bumped their threads for you
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
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BS (Me) 43
WW or FWW 40
2 DS's 16 and 13
Married 21 Years
D-day 9/10/2005
Exposure 9/11/2005
False NC 9/11/2005
Discovery of Contact 12/23/2005
NC (Letter written Jan 2006)
Divorce Petition Filed Jan 2006
In a holding pattern.
Me Still Handing in there
Phil 4:13
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my story is in my signature...
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Waitingonlove, I’m not sure if you've found my guide yet, but in case not, here it is (just click on the link underneath): Guide on withdrawal for FWS’s and BS’s Is this the thread/guide you were looking for? You can find my story at the link in my signature line. Please let me know if I can be of any further assistance.
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Yes I got it. Suzet, I have your Guide printed and in our bathroom. (We call it the Liabrary <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> )
Anyway, I have it in there with a few others that I printed and I noticed she had read it. How much I don't know but it was moved and obviously shuffled around.
Thanks so much
BS (Me) 43
WW or FWW 40
2 DS's 16 and 13
Married 21 Years
D-day 9/10/2005
Exposure 9/11/2005
False NC 9/11/2005
Discovery of Contact 12/23/2005
NC (Letter written Jan 2006)
Divorce Petition Filed Jan 2006
In a holding pattern.
Me Still Handing in there
Phil 4:13
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Yes I got it. Suzet, I have your Guide printed and in our bathroom. (We call it the Liabrary <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> ) Library? I feel honoured! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Glad the guide can be of help. Just ask if you have any questions or if I can be of any further help or assitance. I'm not posting much after I've returned to work on Monday, but I'm lurking when I find the time and try to catch up with everything on the forums. I guess I'm not completely recovered yet from my lazy holiday "mode"! Blessings, Suzet
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WOL, their story is not really in just one place.
I had quite a lot of contact with Schluter. I think Mike will forgive me for giving you my take on it.
Cindy was always very sorry for what she did. For quite a while her emotions, her feelings for Mike, weren't there. She even said, insisted repeatedly, that they never had been. That may or may not have been true, but remorse, and fear of losing her children, and OM's desire to not get smashed into pieces, kept the APs separate, and kept Cindy around long enough to luck her way through some of the initial withdrawal from her AP.
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