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He just got Busted What do I do now?
#1564734 01/16/06 03:27 AM
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I Have been married for 5 years and I knew my husband was doing somethings but could not prove them. So I got to looking on the internet checking the files and cookies and found a site for adult friend finder on his site. so I tried to go in his site and he changed the pass word. So I set up a false account in this site to see if he was a member and there he was with a nude pic on this site what a F******* site for me to find. So I confronted him about it and then he said he deleted the membership so I believed him well tonight after work I went into the false email address I set up and there was a messege for me from this site the AFF and it was from him he told me where he lived and wanted to meet up with me for a good time WTF what should I do
Re: He just got Busted What do I do now?
ladychevy72 #1564735 01/16/06 11:04 AM
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Oh, I think I would email him back, and question whether he is married. Let him really hang himself.
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believer #1564736 01/17/06 05:30 PM
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lol I confronted him and he said he knew it was me but there was no way for him to know. He got angry and blamed me for doing the same thing witch is a lie
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there he was with a nude pic on this site

Bet he lives to regret having posted a nude picture of himself on the internet. You might want to print a copy of the page and secure it somewhere safe. It may come in handy later.

I would not believe for one minute that he knew it was you. Perhaps you should ask him if he is unhappy or unfulfilled in your marriage. See if he is willing to offer an explanation as to why he feels the need to look outside the marriage. Do not do this in anger, but as an honest desire to know what it is that is missing.

Is he willing to go to MC?
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I am the BW,
He is the FWH
D-Day: 12/02/03

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