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Seriously, has this ever happened to anyone?

I just got home today and a nice Carnival Cruise brochure was waiting for me with the OM's name and my/EX's home address. The OM lives in another country with my EX. My EX went on a cruise "alone" last year two months before our seperation. I can only surmise she was not alone and met the OM there as well.

Yeah, I know I shouldn't have let her go alone, but I was naive and trusting. Those were the days....
I didn't know where to post this since I consider the After Divorce to be my new home now <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Just had to rant..


Married 3 years Me(BS): 33 WW: 30 D-Day 5/21/05 Divorced - it's over and my life has now begun
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NO!
You have the right to rant!

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I remember soon after WH moved in with MOW getting a brochure addressed to MOW except it was her first name, H's last name, and my address! I called the store and yelled at them to delete that entry IMMEDIATELY!


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Interesting that you mentioned this. I remember receiving brochures from different resorts and it was addressed to Mr. & Mrs. and I couldn't understand why I was receiving it until I found out he was taking her to resorts when he was supposedly away on business trips. It was half truth since they worked together. But I thought he was going on these trips alone. I trusted him then.

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The STBX moved in with the OW and after he changed his address to her address....junk mail goes THERE addressed to ME....I think it's kinda funny!


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Try submitting a change of address and change it to the correct address for the individual....or contact the sender to change the address. Or put it in the trash. I still get mail - after 10 years - addressed to my x.

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Or...you could request brochures of your own to go to their address. Especially if it's something you & your ex wanted to do but didn't have the money. Use your first name & the name of you future partner, maybe your favorite female name, & your last name. He, he, he <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


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