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#1571658 01/23/06 03:39 PM
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I owe all those offended by my last thread an apology.If I offended anyone I am truly sorry,it was not my intention.Perhaps my joking was misconstrued but it was not meant to harm.

I am leaving the board for good now and no it wasn't because of this particular thread.It was just the last in a long string of uncomfortable attacks,double standards,harmful statements and unsupportive feelings I have had for some time now and I feel my energy should be placed elsehwere.

I truly wish all,past,present and future MB'ers the best marriages that can be.

Take care.

Octobergirl


BW(me)40 DDay 10/11/03 Divorcing 'The Reformer'- enneagram type 1 ~Let Higher Minds Prevail~ --------------- ~Life isn't complicated,we make it that way~
Octobergirl #1571659 01/23/06 03:42 PM
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Dang it...

There you go leaving just when I was getting ready to discuss Enneagram Type 1s with you...

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I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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O-girl,

Though I don't agree with your politics, and I don't think this was the best possible place to bring up politics, I do think the page you had in your original post is a moderately cool web-ap.

If you feel you must go, then farewell. God bless you in your journey.

I'm sure that everyone here can agree with this statement that, even Democrats are allowed to be Marriage builders. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


BS (me - 32) WW - Crystal43 (34) D-Day - June '05 3 DDs NC - w/ OM #1, could be; w/ newest-OM, who knows New OM. Same MO She moved out 3/15/06 ("Beware the Ides of March!") "This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us —whatever we ask— we know that we have what we asked of him." 1 John 5:14-15 (NIV)
mimi_here #1571661 01/23/06 03:48 PM
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yeah me to...I was going to discuss
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oho dang it..
I was just going to discuss SOMETHING with you....

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ark^^ #1571662 01/23/06 04:31 PM
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10Girl,

May you and your children continue on your journey in His loving embrace.

I will miss your wisdom.


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"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle

You believe easily what you hope for ernestly

Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
Octobergirl #1571663 01/23/06 04:32 PM
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If I offended anyone


not even close !!!

I offend someone every day --- hey, it's my job! If you gotta take a break, come back when you wanna give me some good old MB looooove [color:"pink"] *kiss* [/color]

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Permission...............DENIED!!!!

Continue posting.




Whew.......that was close.


BS 42 S-10 D-5 D-day 03NOV14 Plan B - 04Jul22 Filed(me) - 05May13 Final - 06Mar16 "When a man steals your wife there is no better revenge than to let him keep her."
Binder #1571665 01/23/06 05:14 PM
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Hey O girl,
There are a lot of us who wish you would stay.

SS


I think sometimes about all the pain in the world. I hope we can ease that here, even if only a little bit.
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((((((((((((((((October))))))))))))) Don't leave.

Sheesh, I don't even know what you guys are talking about, I missed it.

-Caren


Always Look For Grace Given, Even in the midst of Grace Denied.

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Together 15 years
Married 12 years
7 kids total, His: SD20, SS18, Twin SS's 16.
Mine: DD22, DD15
Ours: DD12
Affair began Fall 04, Separated Fall 04,2 Failed Plan B attempts, False recovery of sorts Spring 05.......Still pluggin' away.
CarenMc #1571667 01/23/06 07:55 PM
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As they may say in Texas...

"Don't let the door hitcha where the good Lord splitcha!"

But, I'm not from Texas, so what do I know. Ask Mel.

BTW, I voted for Bush and I was not offended.

Actually, I couldn't be offended because your remarks had already been deleted by the time I got around to reading your thread. The debate over the use of the term "ignorant" was interesting though.

Anyway, where's the treats? When you leave someplace for good, you're supposed to bring treats. Where's the treats?


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ba109 #1571668 01/23/06 07:57 PM
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Octobergirl - What a bunch of noise over nothing. Must be the after holiday stress. I read your post and thought nothing of it - just an opinion. YIKES!!!!!!

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OG,

You are one of the people I really admire on this board. I hope you don't leave us. Many of us enjoy and appreciate your wisdom. Please reconsider.

Octobergirl #1571670 01/24/06 04:21 AM
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October,

I haven’t followed your last thread, but whatever the “noise” was all about, I hope you will reconsider and not leave… I will certainly miss you on these boards.

NS: I wish I could see a photo of your Border Collie - from your description on my thread about dogs, she sound so quite and beautiful – especially with her white collar and white nose and paws! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Blessings and take care,
Suzet


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