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SJHDV,

Sunday afternoon I spent a great deal of time in prayer and reflection. And for the first time in 4 years I really understood something. Our "affair" 4 years ago was the single most selfish and hurtful thing I have ever done. It was wrong of me, and I hurt Bill very much in the process. I have recently told him the whole truth - including the occassional contact I have maintained by phone. In deceiving Bill and myself, I have hindered our real attempts at reconciliation.

I am now going to end our communication - for now and the future. I am doing this so that I can turn my full focus on the man I love - Bill - and our relationship which is so fractured. I ask that you not contact me in the future - I will share any future attempts to contact me with Bill.

Jan


ME - 46 yo
exH - 45 yo
Married 20 years
Three children 19, 15, 12
Multiple affairs, D-days, NC, and recoveries - all false
Divorce final May 10, 2007

Each day is a new lesson on forgiveness and peace
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Short, concise, and to the point. It looks good to me, Jan.


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