Here's his link:
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...ID=#Post2924607

He's in Plan A and his WS is in daily contact. He has an appt with Dr Harley next Wednesday. What happened today, though, is beyond my comprehension.

His wife emailed relatives, Adrian and a friend the news of OMW's having her baby, complete with pix OM emailed. Okay. I handled that.

Now--SHE IS AT THE HOSPITAL WITH HER OWN PARENTS VISITING THIS POOR WOMAN.

I'm stunned. Thrown. Help?

I want to call it evil. She is the OW...at the hospital, visiting...oh, you get it.

LA

I better wait ... I am in no mood to be verbally soft right now ... man that is one convoluted story ... and my tongue may get sore from biting it too hard <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

I'll need to 'gird up my loins' or I just might say what I really think about his WW .... and it would offend too many here <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

there are WW (regular flavor) and there are What-a-horrible-woman-WW (poison-not-for-human-consumption)

see what I mean about my mood ?????

right now my (not-so-soft) advice for this BH would be ... sell everything and abandon ship!!!!

HEY! I get moody too ya know <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

LOL!

You? Moody? I'm stunned anew!

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

I do get the not-so-soft dire urge, too. I need a creative action he can take (I proposed he go with in-laws to hospital in support of betrayed spouse and exclude wife from it. Too late by the time I posted. :::

Creative, that's what I need. I'm no good at that part. I picture him and his precious daughters outside the hospital with signs that say, "My Mommy is having an affair and was just seeing the wife of the man she slept with. Can you find her for me?"

ACK!
LA

I have to be careful sometimes ... my "creativity" while oft amusing ... can be not-so-good-a-fit for people who do not posess my inner tigress ... know what I mean?

I haven't read the entire thread ... is the WW usually THIS unfeeling??

or

Is this this cruel and
S T U P I D
behavior out of her usual range of destruction???

She's cake-eating at home for the last three weeks, I think. She is in some class and has to do assignments by phone with OM. Won't do no contact. They are only talking about assignments. Yeah right. Other than that, no super destructive behavior like this that I can see.

Story of two couples who were friends and then one of each of them tore it heck and back. They have very young children. Both families in a world of hurt but those two. Also, WS's parents are staying with them at their home (they are European) and are not taking a stand. Obviously, they are doing whatever their daughter wants them to do.

Soooo sad. But on average WS antics? No, this was beyond the pale.