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Quick summary-WH and OW are over for now but he just told me that they went to Cinn. last weekend for their goodbye to each other. How in the world do you erase these memories from your head? I guess I should be happy for the honesty but really sometimes it's just TMI
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Hmmm . . . the only positive thing I can think of to say at the moment is - at least he's sharing information with you! I wish I knew more about my WH's As. But - how do you know it's "over?"
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Get in a solid Plan A. There are lots of ups and downs in this stuff. The affair may be over or not. Just think of him as a heroin addict trying to kick his habit. That way you won't take it all so personally.
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forgiveness
I don't mean to make you feel worse but if it is truely over your WH will have a period of withdrawel and will have needs for a fix. It is just what happens.
As believer said you need a strong Plan A because he will begin to withdraw so you need to be prepared.
Also, if you do not see signs of withdrawel then I would question in the future if indeed he has ended it. If it appears things are happening too easy then I would have my spritual eyes and ears open.
BS (Me) 43
WW or FWW 40
2 DS's 16 and 13
Married 21 Years
D-day 9/10/2005
Exposure 9/11/2005
False NC 9/11/2005
Discovery of Contact 12/23/2005
NC (Letter written Jan 2006)
Divorce Petition Filed Jan 2006
In a holding pattern.
Me Still Handing in there
Phil 4:13
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