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How in the world did I get to 44????It seems like I was in college last week! Hopefully I'll be wiser this year!
aka-confused42
BS-45 me
WH-42
DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
We are IN love again!!!Sept 2007
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Happy Birthday Confused......
I wish for you this next year to be a wonderful year.
I wish for you to be able to move past all of this and have a better marriage.
Have a wonderful day .....
Hurting
BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY...CONFUSED42! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I hope it's a good one for ya, a new year, with new beginnings!! Have fun!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Happy Birthday Confused...
You know throughout the years I've learned from observation that the most beauitful, intelligent and extremely gifted people are born in the month of February. Amazing isn't it?
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Happy birthday! Hope you have a happy and fulfilling year!
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Happy Birthday, Confused...now you're as old as I am. But so much wiser! And jph? You're almost correct on the February issue...those people are CONCEIVED in February. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> LA
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Loving..yes you're right...it's just a magical month... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Happy Birthday!!
Do something wild and crazy and forget the numbers - they mean nothing!
All the best.
Shattered
Me/BS 48
Married 16 yrs/together 23; 1 child
Dday 4/05; WH "needed space" and left 5/05
WH Filed D papers 6/05 - Divorce final 12/05
WH moved in with OW 11/05; moved out OW 1/06
12/06 His 3rd and strongest attempt at reconcilliation (I believe OW still in picture)
2/07 Affair over, begging me to take him back - it's too late.
WH has tried numerous times to reconcile.
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Happy birthday, Confused!
Do you need to change your name now? Confused44 still has a nice ring to it...
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb Neak's Story
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Happy Birthday!
God bless!
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!
Grapes are versatile. Grapes can be sour, sweet, sublime as wine and fabulous even when old and dried out.
Me: BS
XCH: Clueless
2-DS: Bigger than me
1-DD: Now also bigger than me!
5/6: Personally served CH with divorce papers
6/6: CH F? wants to time to see if M can be saved
7/6: FCH reenters our lives to work on marriage but secretly signs papers to start divorce...what's that about?
Mediation set for November
Final dissolution in January 2007.
2008 and beyond: Life goes on...
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Happy Birthday! Are you gonna change your name to confused44? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Hey, I am 44 soon to be 45
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
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Happy birthday C42!
I truly believe this will be a better year for you. I get the feeling the saying my MIL always says applies to you...
"It's always darkest before the dawn"
Your dawn is approaching so keep focused.
HTW
Married 10 years, Legally Seperated Aug 2,2006 1 year of Plan A followed by 1 year of Plan B... ...now stepping towards recovery????? BH 37(me), WW 35, DB 7 & DD 5 My Story My struggle with an EA
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Happy Birthday!!!!!!!
Days almost over, hope you did something special!!!
Kim
D-Day May 14th, 2005
Married 16 Years
DS age 8
6 months Plan A
Plan B 10-11-05, H moved back in June 2007, Very False Recovery.
2nd Day-Day 7/7/08 Kicked WH Out.
Plan B for my sanity
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Robert Brault
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Hey confused... I thought you were 29.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Well Happy Bday to you... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
D-day 5-18-05
35 BS (me)
52 WH
17 DS
15 DD
14 DDs twins
Currently in R.
"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference" The Serenity Prayer
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XBW
DS16 & DS22
PLAN D: finalized!
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[color:"red"]Happy Birthday!! [/color]
Me-41 BS (FWS) DH-41 WS (FBS) 2DD's- 10 and 12 Married 15 years Separated for 2 years after my A Reconciled for 1 year before his A D-day for his A 8/23/05 WH moved out 9/16/05 Divorce final 1/23/07 Affair ended or month or so later My Story
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C42 - Happy Birthday !!!
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Sorry this is so late. I was out all day.
My very best to you - carnation [color:"blue"] [/color]
Me - BS 55
WH/FWH 50
OW 30
Much evidence says that my H was/is
deeply involved in a very long term PA
Prolly will never know much more than that
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Aloha C42, It's still your Birthday here in this timezone. So, Hau'oli la hanau (Hawaiian for Happy Birthday). Pronounced - Howww-ooo-lay la hon-oowww. Be Pono (good) and God bless. S&C Hummm, to be 44 again? I don't think so. Too much drama back then. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
No man likes to have his intelligence or good faith questioned, especially if he has doubts about it himself. - Henry Brooks Adams
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Happy Birthday Confused!
Have a fantastic year ahead!!
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