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oh V---i am so sorry. please try to do what is best for YOUR health right now. take care of you to relieve some of the stress.
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V,
As I understand it, they no longer do the notification thing. Also, have you had an active breakout? I had a friend who was told she had herpes due to a blood test they ran without evidence of an active breakout. It came back positive. She later found out that the blood test they ran will come back positive if you have just had a cold sore on your lip (same virus). She was told they only way they can be certain is if the culture an active sore. Don't know if this is all true/still true give medical science, but that was - oh gosh, 16-17 years ago.
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No, no cold sores or active break-outs... guess I'll find out
later....
I can't even begin to tell you how I feel!!!
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OMG!!!!!!! I don't even know what to say... if this is true, well you just don't need this with your health issues. I bet your H will be real proud of himself now... GRRRR!! I'm so mad for you!
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V, I'm sorry to hear this. What a blow! Well, if EVER there was a time to expose, I guess this would be it, as you already know. I'm so sorry for all that you are going thru with your health and marriage.
I'll pray about this, V. And I wish you the best in your situation! Take care of YOU, now!
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Are you out there? How are you doing?
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I am so sorry V. I'm so sorry.
(sitting here shaking my head no)
Have you told your wayward yet?
OMGosh...I'm so sorry.
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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im worried about her too!!
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hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I hope everything is ok!
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V, just wondering how you are holding up? Please let us know.
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Sorry I have been away so long guys, lots of family problems here... Hospice for mom, niece in hospital for juvinile elilepsie (sp?), son on crutches for last three weeks, stepped on a jagged pipe.... etc, etc!!!
And of course the WH!!
I still just don't get it. Most of the time he is sweet as can be, but the last couple of weeks he's beeen very moody. Asked me twice last week if I have been in his truck, Still goes places after work (sports athority, bar across the street, bla bla bla).
Said he was going on an over night fishing trip with George last Monday, he said he waited in town for 3 hours for George to call but he never did so WH came home... WH kept going out to his truck to check his cell phone (Uhhh, why
not bring it in the house?) Finally WH said George got a hold of him Tuesday morning, they're going after work. WH called me at 3:30 and said that he talked to George at noon and now there going today. WH called me several times saying that George hasn't called and that he was just hanging around town waiting... another call at about 7:15 saying that he was going to his sisters condo to take a shower (closer than home) and wait for George.... WH walked in the door at 8:15 cussing because George never called.
Wed. WH says George got ahold of him and they are going Mon. after work..... Uh, ok! Oh, the reason George didn't call was that his DMIL passed away. I am going today to get a sympathy card to send to the family, will let you know how WH reacts!
PS, have not heard a word from OW or her hubby, but what I have gathered from friends is that they have a kind of relationship where they plan their vacations to places like the red light district (forgot where that was at) so that they can have sex with other partners in front of other people in the bars!!! GRRROSSSSS!!!
I am mentally whipped!
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Sounds like the affair is STILL ON, I am sorry to say! Your H is not even that clever about covering his tracks. Why not bust him, vettech?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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