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Would this be a red flag for most people. Especially if one of the searches involves a person of the opposite sex in which their was an attraction?


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Renuion website wouldn't be a red flag for me...but searches in which you know there was an attraction to that person...yep - that's a red flag.


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Yuck!!!

It's a red flag for me right now. I'll just have to ride this out to see if it is anything or not.

I hate myself for not being able to trust him completely!


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It tells me there is something going on in his mind that he feels the need to retract to a fantasy world. When people start going to back to the "I WANT TO RELIVE THE PAST" moments, there is some emotion that has been triggered that they are trying to deal with.

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BAD JUJU


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