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Re: Please help pregnant Mom w/ ideas/ H wants abortion x-posted
emmawtrs #1605957 03/06/06 03:59 PM
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Call Catholic diocese charities...
there are sisters that work with moms and pregnent women..

they will have resources and info for you..

call them

ARK
Re: Please help pregnant Mom w/ ideas/ H wants abortion x-posted
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Please listen to ARC and call Catholic Charities. They are the largest donor organization in the Washington Metropolitian Area and have the resources to help you. What county in MD are you in? Here is the web site address for the Washington Archdiocese, which covers DC and the neighboring counties in MD: www.adw.org I was at a mass yesterday overseen by Cardinal Mccarrick and it was beautiful, they are hear to help you just need to ask them.

Montgomery County has has lots of resources for it's residents (www.montgomerycountymd.gov) , I'm not sure what county you are in but most of the others are the same. Remember, Maryland is not a no-fault divorce state so see an attorney and find out how to protect you and your children. The state will not allow him to not support you and the children.

The resources are out there, please reach out and use them.

BS (me) - 33 FWH - 33 Dday - 5/2/04, he confessed to a PA Together 10 yrs, M 4 WH moved out 5/23/04, moved home 11/29/04 DD born - 12/7/04 In the process of recovery, taking it one day at a time...
Re: Please help pregnant Mom w/ ideas/ H wants abortion x-posted
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>I cant believe the relief I feel from the seperation.

Telling words.

Ark is right. The Catholic diocese with help you. They will - but you have to pick up the phone.

Also, lets sit down and form a plan for when your wh (cos I think he is) comes home. Do you want him out? Ark, you help, too....I'll bet we all can lend a shoulder or two for Emma to lean on.

Girl get a pad of paper and list your I wants regarding keeping you and your familia safe. There are ways and ways to get it, but you have to know what exactly you want.

Sent a flare prayer up.

All my love,
Kimmy

I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

My Story

Recovered!
Re: Please help pregnant Mom w/ ideas/ H wants abortion x-posted
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Just received a boo-hoo letter from H.
" I got tears in my eyes today because I listed the Mercedes for sale".
"I am so depressed, I wanted to jump from the plane"
"I dont know how I will manage 2 kids".
Yada yada yada.
Nice guy.
No inquiry yet on how I feel?? How I am managing physically (Just giving birth recently and being pregnant again is not easy).
It's all about HIM.
He is the only man I know of in his income bracket who wants to kill his own child.
Heck, he is the only CATHOLIC I know who wants to murder his own child.
My head is spinning. I have a fever of 101. I wonder if he prays the baby will die from the fever. Bet so.
What a guy.
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Time to stop concentrating on your husband and taking care of you. If you are feeling really depressed, see a doctor.
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Re: Please help pregnant Mom w/ ideas/ H wants abortion x-posted
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I have come to terms with warped beliefs that can come from Catholic teaching


This is very offensive to me, as I am currently studying to become Catholic. In my experience the so called warped teachings are simply ignorance of what the Catholic church teaches. This is not to say the church does not have sinners, we are all sinners but we are still loved. That means something.

BS (me) - 33 FWH - 33 Dday - 5/2/04, he confessed to a PA Together 10 yrs, M 4 WH moved out 5/23/04, moved home 11/29/04 DD born - 12/7/04 In the process of recovery, taking it one day at a time...
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