I'm the stupid one AndyG's spouse refer
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...;page=0#2918750I don't even know where to begin. . . I guess we are trying to work things out. Though from one day to the next I have moments when I think it is all futile, I wonder is it possible to have an STD from all of this? & not be aware of it? Besides HIV/Aids. I have now what I think is a yeast infection. Also I was preg. w/ our third @ the time this SUPPOSEDLY took place & ended (a three to four month span for him), what should I know, look for, or should I worry about w/ our now 3y old son? I have never known hurt like this do people actually exist that have this happen & remain married w/o further problems & eventually have a HAPPY TRUSTING relationship, I can't baby-sit him while he is @ work & that is where the OW still works as well to this day, . . .how do I know it won't become another temp.in the future? or is still an on going thing? Yes he told me about it I didn't catch him so praise him for it! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> I keep thinking it's like stealing why do it once if you
never OW get caught? Come on! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> Also My biggest question is how do I know the difference between his wanting to work this out being because he Luvs me <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> verses not wanting to part w/ his wallet <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />& face his parents disappointment?
By the way we were only separated for 10 day's of the 4months this took place & he & she both (yes I just HAD to talk to her too) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> have informed me I am a lousy lay, great! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" />(& i admit i don't get around he was my 3rd)any way he say's she was just a piece of *** but in separate conversation tells me in order for sex to be good there has to be love & an emotional connection! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!