Two steaks, you got it. I cook hot dogs on the grill too, so we're in luck. I know it's a big meal, so I may go with smaller portions. Probably cook the corn on the grill.

It snowed here a little this morning, but sun is shining now and supposed to warm up. No rain in sight for the weekend. I will probably have the cake made, although I can make them from scratch. Cupcakes are my specialty if I make them.

This is spring break week here, so most of the schools are out. I getting ready to go home, because I left Zach babysitting Sam, or Sam babysitting Zach, well, either way. Soon, I hope you have a great night. Play with those boys. Maybe tell them a story about a brave basset hound named Sam who saved the world from something evil, like a box of dog treats bent on ruling the universe.

I will talk to you tomorrow.

Beaux, Sorry about the menu discussion today. We are capable of getting into almost anything on here. Thanks for ignoring the "balls" faux pas as I'm still embarrassed. The AD's will help, just give them a little time.

Have a great night.

Have a great evening Tired! And most importantly HAVE FUN!

I know you're already gone, but I assume you'll read this tomorrow. About 1:00AM this morning, the phone rings. Scares the shat outta me. I answer, "hello"...nothing "HELLO"...and it's a woman. There's music playing in the background and she finally says "I must have the wrong number", and then hung up. The name and number came up on the caller id.

Am I reading too much into this? Should I investigate this further. Ofcourse, there's nothing much to investigate. I pulled up the address that belongs to the number. I don't have a first name, just an initial. What do you think?

Hey Soon. I'm online at home now. Zach is in the shower so I'm waiting on him to finish.

I don't think you can make too much out of that. If she was OW, she would know that you would be home, and probably answer the phone. Also, if it was OW, she probably would just have hung up. Also, if I was a man cheating with OW, I would never give my home phone number, only cell.

You might be jumping at shadows a little bit. I did read on another post where you mentioned a gut-feeling. I know that feeling and believe in it. I always knew when my STBX was up to something. What does your feeling tell you?

My gut tells me to check on it. I remember one time when the OW called my H cell phone, and I answered. She hesitated, I had to say hello twice before she said "I must have the wrong number". I know the person that called last night wasnt this same woman, I guess I just have that gut feeling again because the conversation went the same as the other time.

I don't think that my H would give another woman his home phone number right now. But, I do know that a lot of people knows that were getting a D, and the phone number is in the phone book. I can see my H telling a woman that he's going to be single soon, and acting as if though I'm not in the house still, and that woman just picking up the phone to call and talk to him, thinking I'm not there...I mean, afterall we are getting a d! Why would she think I'd be there. I don't know.

And the fact that when I said hello the first time, she didn't say anything. I had to say it twice. I may just drive by the house if I can find it, just to make myself feel better I guess.

If she is interest in my H then she is either A) A young chick or B) Unemployed. Who in the heck is up at one o'clock in the morning with music blasting?

HAVE FUN TONIGHT!!!!!!!!!

Well, I said to myself that I wasn't going to mention anything to H about the phone call early this morn but I did. he just called here and I asked him if he knew who it was. He said he didn't even remember it,
M: Do you know the lady that called last night?
H: Dont remember it, where was she from?
M: City
H: What did she say?
M: I told him what she said then said, "you don't know a J. Brown?"
H: No, honey.

What do you think.

I don't know Soon. You made some good points above, and I doubt that he told anyone to call him. Is he usually in bed at that time? I would say to trust your instincts in any event.

I couldn't tell much from the conversation. H would probably deny it even if it was OW. More importantly, what do you think about it? It bothers me how he calls you honey and says things like he did last night, and still be planning to D. How old is he? It seems like he thinks all of this is a big game.

Zach and I just got back from the mall and shooting some pool. I let him win, of course. Lasagna is in the oven, so in only 1 hour and 10 minutes, we can chow down. Sam is still pouting because he didn't get to go to the mall.

I hope you and the kids do something fun tonight. Even a tickle session in the floor or something. Just try to laugh a little bit.

Talk to you tomorrow.

Soon, one final thought. What would your H say if you told him that you didn't want to wait until the D is finalized, and you want to move out now?

Hey all,

Just checking in - sorry I have been MIA. Obviously H has been spending more time here now. We still haven't talked much about anything, but I guess it does not matter right at this moment b/c the actions are speaking loud enough for me. I'm taking it day by day and trying not to expect anything and have been pleasantly surprised almost every day. He's been calling ME at night (the nights that he hasn't stayed here) before bed, just to say good night.

Tonight we all went to dinner as a family, it was nice but DS wasn't feeling well so it kind of put of a damper on things. I think the fact that I am not expecting things is really helping me. I am trying to keep things light, happy and upbeat & I do not try to force "M" talk on him or anything of the sort. I am letting him come to me. I am also continuing on with plans like for this wknd, I let him know that I was taking the kids to my good friend's house for a party Saturday - I think that took him by surprise b/c it shows that I am not expecting anything from him. (He asked what time I thought we'd be home and I said not too late b/c of the baby) Tonight before he left I got the best hug from him - I didn't initiate it, he did and my gosh it felt so wonderful - as we pulled away I looked at him and he still had his eyes shut, as if he enjoyed it as much as me. He doesn't say anything, but he doesn't have to. I can feel something - maybe I am off-base, but I felt it in our hug. I am also trying to keep in mind that he is probably going thru "withdrawal" too, so that also makes it easier not to expect much from him at this point.

You guys have no idea how much I hope that we can be a success story - I miss my H so much. It is crazy how much I love him. I don't tell him that though. I'm still keeping w/the tough love, but being upbeat and happy too. I also keep reminding him that he can talk to me about anything without the fear of being judged.

Soon, I think your H is in for a rude awakening when you aren't living together anymore. I don't understand him at all. ((HUGS))

Tired, can I have a steak also? Medium rare please <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Goodnight all.