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Curly, click on your profile and click on show users posts and then start deleting.


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BTW, if you are starting a new life with someone don't you want to start with radical honesty to give the R the best chance possible?


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It doesnt work!!!
I know about radical honesty, but believe me in my case this is not the best. He knows part of my behaviour, he want to kill himself. then He hit me, he is blind by jelous and believe me I have change, and I need to erase those post.

I try that you suggest but I cant erase anyone!!!!

Some post are from 2004, before this site was change.. Im desperate what can I do...?

My time is finishing..

I think he is going to get in this site, this AFTERNOON!!!

HELP PLEASE

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go to your posts and hit edit then erase them..

what are you talking about...
he hit you...
are you away from him right now..
you need to get to a shelter or somewhere safe..
did you call the police
are you hurt...
can you get soemwhere away from him
cause you must do so..

why do you think he is going to get in this site...

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If he knows your MB name you could try and change it to something else. When you do so it amends ALL your posts (not sure if the that includes archived ones as well) to the new name and hence harder to find.

You can change your signature to something really fake to.

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"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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It didnt work!!!
Im scare..

I wrote personal things inside those post.. If he reads he is going to know that I wrote them, and Im afraid his reaction..
Believe me is best to erase those post...
I got "the page you have requested is nor reachable or something"
I cannot edit those post..

Any suggestion please?

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Curly, did you email tempest at the new email address?

TempestMB@yahoo.com


Otherwise, change your log in ID.


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you clicked on "my home", then personal preferences and tried to change your display name to something else and it didn't work?

Like I said it may not work for archived 2004 posts but it would certainly work for anything recent.

How is he going to know where to look if it's not current?

good luck, Mr. W

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Nope,
if its in the archives ......posters can't touch it.
As for the Mods .....only they can tell you that.

However,
this is an excellent example of WHY one (if they Have truly changed) Should "out" themselves.

Sadly, curly
2 yrs or so is More then enough time to have accomplished this task.

Now
(should you be found out this way)
ALL Your Hard work and Improvement will mean little to your H.
Sure Your still changed ....but due to your Continued Dishonesty .....you'll be given little credit for it.

Shame really ....when just outing yourself would have gained you So much in renewed Credibility.

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He has access to my emails account. Once I got an email from MB site.Im not sure if he read that mail.
He is going to look cases about internet affairs, so he is going to be able to read those post's.
I wrote several personal things, so is not difficult to figure out I wrote that.

Thats the reason is not so useful, to change owner of those post. I need to DELETE all!!

YEs I wrote to new email account tempest.

I think the problem is that those mails, were writing before change this site.

I try with my new post, and it works but with old ones doesnt work.

IM scare..

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curly

i also sent 3 e-mails to tempest asking him to do this....at his old address, i haven't tried the new address

my reason is that IF my H ever comes to his senses, i don't want him to know how much of our personal information i shared here......

but i got no response either

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curly...

the issue isn't the posts...
has he acted out violently towards you..
then you need to get yourself to a safe place
PERIOD

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if its not safe....get out.

it seems its radical honesty time.....


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Hopefully I've taken care of it.


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Yesterday I sent you an email, asking for help, in order to delete old post owned by me...

Are you able to delete them?

Can I send you a list, or can you erase all post owned by curly17?

Please?

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Can ypu erase by subject?
Can I send you by email which subjects are more dangerous?

Please help me!!!

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ALL 123 posts?????? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

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How many hours do two "<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />" stand for?

Can this not be done?


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