My husband of 26 years just told me 2 weeks ago (3 days before our anniversary) that he's leaving me and is seeing his highschool girlfriend. He told the kis (grown) and his family. I was in total shock but it's hitting me hard now and I dont know what to do. He directed me to this site to help me get through the pain. His GF isnt a christian and my husband is backslidden. He feels guilty and torn between us I can tell but he sleeps at her house every night. Hard to face. We very hastily listed our house and it sold in 24 hours so now we have to live seperately. I'm wondering if we (I) jumped the gun on that? I couldnt have him living here and sleeping there and I cant afford the house alone. I'm sick, sick, sick and half crazy with grief! What do I do????? I got legal seperation papers but dont want to use them but feel I need to protect myself financially. Help, anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1