Do I have a right to know the log-in password to get onto the business computer that H leaves and uses at home 90% of the time?? Yes, this is a company computer, that I found and dug up porn on, etc...etc...
I figured out the password a few months ago. But, discovered it was locked and changed today.
Looking at the history the other day when it was turned on and he was out of the room, I now think he takes the computer to work, but 99% of the time, my guess is that it is left in the car. I called him on it last night and he left it home today....but lo and behold, the password is changed. I cant log on to anything. Ziltch.
Red flag, there??
And since it is in my home 99% of the time, do I have the right to be able access it?? Get online for crying out loud?? Keep in mind, this computer has been used to download all kinds of filth.
Why dont these companies track their employees better??
Thanks for any insight.
Between the upcoming miscarriage and discovering this password changed today, Im about to go thru the roof.
Thanks for the support

It's company property and legally you shouldn't have access. Then again what is his company's policy about using his work laptop for entering questionable sites?

L.

I am willing to bet my life his company would frown upon porn entertainment.

Come to think of it, this "Business" computer is used at home 99% of the time for entertainment and personal use purposes. The company issued it, yes, but is rarely used for technical work.
On the rare occaision he takes a day off, he uses it to work from home on. He takes it on his business trips...but for the most part, it is used for personal pleasure.
I wouldnt have the right to log on and take a looksee of what he's been up to?? I understand I cant install any spyware...but this thing is in MY home.
I just think that is messed up. Things are coming into MY home on this computer, which is there 99% of the time, and I have no right to know the truth of what is my life??
Boy, that really stinks.
You know, I am just getting to the point with all this crap going on, that it just isnt worth it anymore. My life has become a living nightmare. What is worth all this?? If it doesnt feel right, it probably aint right?? Why do we stay and make ourselves so crazy with the need to investigate so much?? Red flags are there, flaunting in our faces....what is the use??
And I tell you, I am to the point now, that I dont care anymore if I LB. My love is just about all worn out <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> I feel like giving up...cutting my losses and allowing him to become another woman's problem. This woman has had enough <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />