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hey all should i send flowers or just leave her alone?
she said monday that she didn't wanna do anything today but that was 2 days ago. i've been giving her space to let her work things out but i just can't breath w/ out her.


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I say send the flowers... but be casual and appropriate.

The worse thing you can do right now is smother her.

The best thing you can do is learn to breathe without her.

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Send the flowers. Let he know that you are thinking about her / your anniversery.

If you don't send anything she will REMEMBER that and will likely use that against you at some point.

Stay Strong!


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YOU DONT THINK BY SENDING THEM IT WONT BE SMOTHERING HER I JUST DONT WANNA MESS UP ANYMORE.


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well, i went ahea and sent them crossing my fingers


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I do believe this may be my last effort to try to fix us. she's been "out of love" w/ me since feb. of course i didn't find out till 3 weeks ago and then i found out of the EA a week later.

but i dont think my heart or my body can take much more of this. Of course the silver lining is i've lost 12pds. in the last 3 weeks i know not good but feels good to fit into pants 1 size smaller.

god i love her i just wish she said something sooner or i noticed the signs. or whatever, all i know is getting spent and so so tierd of worrying and crying.


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