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Rosie and Orchid, look at how you held my hand when I was new here <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> : http://www.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/sho...true#Post971211
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woah, I had forgotten that! For some reason I had thought you were older (MB wise) than me - my memory is getting old!
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And people wonder if marriages are saved by MB.
Look at us all growed up! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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BR, what made you recall this thread? U lovely ladies. How u made my day. Wow, that was a trip down memory lane. LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> ML, I didn't need t/d much 4 u. You are and were spunky even then. Just a question or 2 set you back on track with a mission. I recall thinking what spunk you have. Even with the car door incident, remember? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> BR, my dear dear friend. You never adopted me. Of course it would look a bit funny, me 10+ years older than you, calling you mom. LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> I read my threads and even see how smart my little one was way back then, imagine this really happened: "I am reminded of what my 6 year old said about his dad. His dad commented the other week in front of his son that he was a bad dad and bad husband. After his father left, our son said, "Mom, if dad is a bad husband why would he want to be married to another woman? Wouldn't he just be another bad husband? My dad used to be a good dad for 6 years, why did he turn into a bad dad?" Wow..... Yes we have come a long way. Those boundaries are still with me. I am much stronger now and RB a lot. LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> Hugz to U! Aloha, L.
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Here's a thread that brings back memories. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> Humor....gotta love it!
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heehee ~ well, LLG posted asking for the URL of the archived board....and I checked the link to make sure it worked before I posted....and next thing ya know I started poking around in my early early posts on the Divorcing board...
I think that we should send the newcomers over there more often, especially when they start imagining that recovery is not really possible. What a lovely store of wisdom is lying around getting dusty!
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BR, This made me laugh; "Your H has to hit a bottom. For every individual, that bottom is different. And what's worse, there's no way of knowing where someone's bottom is."
First look for their head. You can generally find a WS's bottom wrapped around their head, no?
added: I spend maybe 2/3 of the time I'm on MB rummaging around in the archives. It's very much worth the time.
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"An ethical man knows it is wrong to cheat on his wife. A moral man will not actually do it." ~ Ducky
WS: They are who they are.
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Wow, you guys have come a looooooooooooong way! Awesome!
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A question for Mel - I never knew your story, but after reading your posts dated back in 2002, it sounds like your H had porn issues. Do you think he had sex addiction? How did he overcome his issues?
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A question for Mel - I never knew your story, but after reading your posts dated back in 2002, it sounds like your H had porn issues. Do you think he had sex addiction? How did he overcome his issues?
Milk Mel, Milk wants to hear your story. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> L.
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it might almost be time to open up an "Oldie Club"!
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Me-46yo + Husband-49yo Met 1975/ Married 1980 H had 3 month affair/D-d January 2001 Grandparents since Dec.2005 Recovered and moving on and we're looking forward to the years ahead!
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A question for Mel - I never knew your story, but after reading your posts dated back in 2002, it sounds like your H had porn issues. Do you think he had sex addiction? How did he overcome his issues?
Milk Sorry milkshake, I just noticed this. No, my DH did not have a sex addiction. He did like to look at nekkid girls on the internet and developed that interest in the years he was single. He hasn't done it in years, fortunately.
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