look in the mirror!

Oh that was cute!

How fun.

Here I'll help you along with your reply to me -

"he he he"

Whatchutalkinboutwillis?

Yeah, there are some very angry BS here. But you should try to understand what they have gone thru because of WWs and FWWs. Is not pretty or easy to be a BS <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />. I still cannot believe that my husband forgave me <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />, So, just try to understand their position a little bit. It took me a long time to understand that...dont let that be your case too.

sfjaj=trollin, trollin, trollin; keep them doggies rolling...RAWHIIIIIIIIDE...................~~~~ <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

sfjaj,

Maybe you should look in the mirror yourself. Here, I'll hold one up for you.

sfjaj wrote:
"If ML ignores me...I won't NOT respond to her. She is the one who has problems with me. Take the matter up with her too"

Yet, you then follow with this NEW post titled "How to spot vicious, self-righteous, hypocritical bitter BS"

So I have to ask sfjaj, are you here for the negative attention or perhaps just to start trouble? Or, are you here to marriage build and/or support others who are trying.

You whine about ML stalking you, yet you create a new post begging for negative attention. Then follow with "Whaaaaaaaaaa, ML is stalking me".

I'd suggest you cease inciting the unwanted attention by simply avoiding creation of these types of posts. DUH!

Jo

Someone else began the "troll" thread first...why don't you likewise criticize them?? Why? because it's not PC??? If you claim that I'm a newbie so should just listen, what are the others' excuses for acting so immaturely? My IC would have a heyday with all of you!

that troll thread was not about YOU ! DID you think it was ???

sfjaj there is anothe forum you might be interested in- I believe it is the pink board at TOM- that means the other woman incase you don't know.

you have so much wisdom to pass on to them on how to keep your husband in the dark while you have an affair with a married man. You can also tell them how great it is to have his baby and keep that from your husband and his wife.

I'm sure they'll really get a lot out of it.

Those are the experiences you have to pass on- you have not shown recovery expereince here at all. Almost all of your posts contridict the MB principles - so why are you here?

Are you here to learn how to recover your marriage? If so, you'd do better by sitting down and shutting up and reading and putting into practice the principles.

You have to earn respect- the fact that you still haven't told OMW about your affair and the child, don't do a lot toward building respect.

Many other FWS on here have earned respect.

As for all of us being bitter BS, hmmm put your self in our shoes - how would you feel if someone like you had screwed your husband? I bet you'd feel pretty dang miserable at times. When someone who is so arrogant about being a WS comes on and start spouting nonsense, I bet your hackles would raise too.

You and a few more members of the mutual admirations society of WWs think this site bashes WSs all the time. I bet if you read posts by BSs you'd see an awful lot of them getting a 2x4.

Just my opinions, of which I am entitled and which do count as is stated in that thread at the top that you do your darndest to make sure stays active.

sfjaj..

you started this with a thread calling people names...all because you didn't like the advice given to another poster...

you started all of this..
all of it...
you did this..

there was no name calling till you started your whole own post on it...

it is a great divergence from issues at hand...

you then called out ANOTHER poster...and called them names....

see a pattern here...

you are the ONLY person I have see do this over and over and over....in all the time I have been here....

and all you do is call people names....

ARK

Actually, we did contact the OMW recently. I wish people would take the time to SHUT their own mouths before they spout off and act holier-than-thou. Actually, the others attacked first

Good Lord how this reminds me of my two ADD poster children.

HE started it!!

SHE DID!

NO, HE DID!!!


FN

Since you brought it up, if we're going to talk about sophomoric behavior, this:

"Someone else began the "troll" thread first..."

smacks of "She started it!".

What do we tell our kids when they say that? "Two wrongs don't make ... etc."

Why not simply ignore it and move on by using this site for what its intended, MARRIAGE BUILDING.

Jo

Very, very "bitter" and sanctimonious........ <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />

Why don't you address that to the others? I merely defended myself. I was defensive, as opposed to offensive

Reading is Fun-D-Mental.


Notice, "children". Plural in nature, encompassing more than one. Also refering to the collective within this thread.

But you know what they say. Throw a shoe into a pack of dogs and the one that yelps is more than likely the one that got hit.


FN

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Yes, I agree, ML is really a yelper!

Why provide it?

"Shut their mouths..." So you are entitled to your opinions, sfj, but the professionals out here are not? Come on, listen to the pros and learn. Listen to the people who have been where you are and have recovered their lives. You can also. THEN, you can help others.