I have to go away for a few days to Ras Al Khaimah and I am really worried about Daggi.

Daggi's thread

#1

Please try for the moment to forget that she is in Kuwait. For the time being, that is probably the least of her problems. I think she seems depressed and is maybe giving up. Please give her advice, support and encouragement so that she does not do something she might later regret. If all you know about Kuwait is what you see on CNN, trust me - it is not that bad in the dangerous sense. Anyway, please just look in on her. I think this forum is about her only support at the moment. She needs emotional support and probably from a more feminine perspective than mine.

#2

I am going to ask gemela to post every day to give her something to do. If she does post, please just remind her how important and critical it is that she maintain NC unless of course it is her intention to run off with OM and live happily ever after in which case she can talk to him night and day if she wishes. My fear is that, with me being gone, she might be very tempted to make a phone call - or two - or three. I won't be gone that long but please just keep helping her. I think we have made some progress but all it will take is one phone call to really set us back.

I thank you all so much!

T,

I will do my best for Gemela but you have to understand that YOU cannot control others. That is ONE important lesson I have learned here.

I am responsible for me and no one else.

traic,

Will do.

Thank you for caring.

Be safe and come back soon.

Aloha,
L.

cc46,

I am not trying to control anyone. You taught me that already. I just think she is easily influenced right now. She has had the ability to call for several weeks. She has money again and is unaccountable for it. If she chooses to call, that is her choice and I am not preventing it. Now...



Are you really SURE you have learned that lesson? I personally have my doubts about you. At the very least, it is like the pot calling the kettle "black" - don't you think? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Orchid,

Thanks loads!

TRAICIONADO.. Take Gemela and the girls in your trip! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />