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It has been almost 5 weeks since nc for my WW, and we still haven't had sex. And it has been 5 months since we have had sf... I'm very eager for us to, but she says it makes her feel uncomfortable right now. Is this normal? When will she want to again? How have others handeled this?
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Me:30
WS:29
D-Day: 1-9-06
Married:6 years
DD: 5
DD: 10 months
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If she is the WS and is completely compliant with NC, I would say she is carrying a lot of guilt. Either that or she contracted a viral STD and she doesn't want you to know.
Has she been tested for STDs since the affair?
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As a FWW, I would think a couple of things could be going on....(1) Guilt, (2) Still having A....
Guilt is consuming, but it doesn't stop WS from continuing the bad behavior. The fog just makes you get deeper and deeper in it! It's HE// - at least it was for me.
Sounds to me like she is continuing her A.
"It's the simple things in life, like the kids at home and a loving wife, that you miss the most when you lose control. Everything that you love starts to disappear..."
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