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Does anyone have any stats or know where I can get some information on who has more affairs African Americans or Caucasians? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

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strange question you ask

I think Chinese have more affairs ... because there are more Chinese on the planet than any other nationality ... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

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ROFL Pep- good one

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My guess is because infidelity is such an equal opportunity disease that the percentage is equal across the board regardless of the nationality.

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Our OW was chinese so do you think it was just availability??!

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They're all aliens....

Their actions smell like they're from Uranus <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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That's the best one - very good.

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I heard that some are from Pooto, M'[censored]', Saturd and Jupooter <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />!

Aliens - the lot of them!

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Um - Abbi - you said "African Americans or Causasian" - you do know that not all black people are African *Americans*, don't you?

I used to love it when reporters would refer to Nelson Mandela as an "African American".
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Our OW was chinese so do you think it was just availability??!

OW in our case was chinese also. What a shame on that culture.

Any WS/OW is a shame on their culture. Of course since they have turned in their citizenship for yellow cards from the motheship....that makes them not of this world. LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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Does anyone have any stats or know where I can get some information on who has more affairs African Americans or Caucasians? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />

Endorsing the prior responses, why are you asking?

Here's one stat you can take to the (love) bank: 100% of affairees are selfish - regardless of ethnicity, culture, faith, morals, or nationality - or lack thereof.

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Actually I just watched a very interesting CBC documentary about the lack of chinese women available for marriage in this generation because of the one child policy. There is a serious shortage, especially in the countryside. Makes you wonder how the policy makers didn`t see this one coming since male children are so highly prized, they are needed to help their families with the heavy farm labour.

I am wondering about your question too. Do you think certain races may be more prone to silly behaviour? What difference does this make anyway?


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Actually, the male in the Chinese culture is most highly desired because, traditionally, he takes care of his parents when they are old.

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I don't know the statistics, if there are even any, but I suspect that there may be CULTURAL differences rather than RACIAL.

Agree wholeheartly that all blacks are not African Americans. That is an all too common mistake made by Americans.

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Actually, the male in the Chinese culture is most highly desired because, traditionally, he takes care of his parents when they are old.

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Yes that was mentioned in the documentary as well. I was pleased to learn that government of China has now begun a campaign to teach their citizens the importance of female children. This has come too late for this generation though.


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Believing what they teach, and teaching what they believe are two different animals....

Having all those men around with little or no chance of marriage leaves a great resource for an Army, eh? A little scary, I think...

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speaking of culture of entitlement

I heard a statistic this morning about male caucasian college atheletes...

numbers are from memory (wobbly at best) so may be slightly off ... but not by much

male college athletes represent 3% of the population but are convicted for 19% of sexual assault crimes !!!

whoa!

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Here's on for ya Pep - can't quote an actual stat, but tell me I'm wrong:

The occupation with the highest percentage of pedophiles:

Priests

Hmmmmm?

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I would not know WAT ... but you'd have a better chance of nailing down the statistic if you included the word "convicted"

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Daisy,

Male children will NOT be highly prized too much longer. It is called supply and demand. It will not be long before female children will be in very high demand. One can do many things but shut down the human sex drive is NOT one of them.

Given the famines and number that used to die in China from starvation, their policy makes sense. Starvation is does not respect gender but it does affect children fastest.

Nature has a way of balancing things out and the pendulum will swing.

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