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this ALL needs to stop...
reminds me of a fricken kindergarden...
no one is going to get the help they need with all this in-fighting...
from Franks' thread to this...
not much difference..
STOP.
NOW.
EVERYONE.
Words have the power to both destroy and heal. When words are both true and kind, they can change our world.
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ENOUGH US ENOUGH!!!!!
WE ARE HERE FOR HELP WITH OUR MARRIAGES AND TO HELP OTHERS GET THROUGH THEIR PAIN.
THESE KINDS OF THREADS ARE HURTFUL..
PLEASE STOP!!
PLEASE DELETE YOUR THREAD, THEY ARE RUINING MB'S ABILITY TO HELP PEOPLE WHO REALLY NEED IT. I AM EMBARRASED AND APOLOGIZE FOR ALL OF YOU
THANK YOU
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Eav, I understand....
but we all have to stop "biting'....
it has to stop.
now.
I no longer care who, what, where, why or how....
this needs to stop....
can you imagine newbies seeing all this crap?!?!?!
I'd run screaming....
it's worse than a kindergarden, actually...because there, you'd all get a time out!!!
this helps NO ONE...
not Eav, not JPH, not Dazed, not ANYONE.....
Words have the power to both destroy and heal. When words are both true and kind, they can change our world.
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I do read your posts eav. They're one liners. You should have friends to share much of what you post..about your car battery or yard work..friends in the flesh that you can establish relationships.
To check posts takes seconds. Just click on the person's name and you'll then be able to see all posts.
"Spend alot of time worrying about other people's problems?"
What do you think this site is all about? For the Harley's it a site to sell books and counseling..for those of us who have survived the nightmare of adultery, it's to help each other.
Do you ever have parents who won't listen to the advice you give them about their children? They just can't accept that things are not what they wish them to be.
The wise thing to do eav would be to develop a rich life full of activities and friendships. Don't consider your value or quality of life on whatever your husband is doing. It's not healthy.
As I said in my original post...use the ignore feature...
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Are we all adults here, or what? For crying out loud! Sheesh, I'm a highly-sensitive conflict-avoiding care-taking nurturer and even I have my limits to what is called "support" around here on this "support site" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />. THIS ISN'T SUPPORT. Remember, we AREN'T professionals.... it's all just OPINION... and OPINION ISN'T RIGHT OR WRONG... IT JUST IS.
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it is not up to YOU to decide what advice is best for anyone but YOURSELF
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I am a newbie, but I have given my advice to some on here. I give my opinion depending on the situation. Sometimes you have to be objective on what you write on here. Every person who writes on this post has their own opinion and that's all it is, an OPINION..No one is right..
What you are doing is tarnishing this site. You guy's are all passionate and believe that you were truly trying to help. But it has gone to far. We have heard you, now end it please. I am begging you..
I REPEAT....STOP THIS MADNESS, IT IS NOT DOING ANYBODY ANY GOOD..
D E L E T E....T H I S....T H R E A D... for all who care about the others on this forum.
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jph:
You should know I will always be in your corner...never a hater. your one of my favs here.
Lem
Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.
I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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jph,
Forgive me for not saying this sooner...
Thank you for sharing your story, and the pain you've endured (and continue to endure) is terrible. I can only imagine the frustration at knowing you will continue to deteriorate physically... and the fear of what is still unknown and yet to come.
And sight... precious. I'm legally blind in one eye and that's scary enough... my opthamologist always tells me to protect my good eye with my life... my friends used to laugh at me because the doctors said my bad eye might freeze in a corner (since I obviously don't "use" it)... and while I know it isn't the same as your situation, I do have a bit of understanding...
You're right... life is far too precious to waste time... your words have not gone unnoticed...
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Lemon and new..
Thank you for your words of encouragement...
I so appreciate your support.
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I recommend the book, THE ANATOMY OF HOPE by Jeremy Groopman, M.D.
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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And lets end it HERE...on a kind note. And get back to Marriage Building. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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