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Yea, wait till I'm writing a response .....THEN lock the thread! sheesh #1646415 05/02/06 10:49 AM
Joined: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,607 T top rope Member
top rope Member T Joined: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,607	(In response to Allsfair's NOW Locked thread). Actually this is just a small glimpse into the UGLY side of Infidelity. Is it extreme? Sure. But that's the way it goes in the Information Age. However, Its like any other thread ........you don't want to read it ........easy, Don't. Hey, there should BE More of this going on. If there were MORE Horror stories out there, (instead of the usual keeping it ALL on the Down Low) perhaps MORE potential WS would NEVER even take that First Step .......cause the Consequences would be Just too Risky to even Chance. Last edited by top rope; 05/02/06 10:51 AM. Fooling people is serious business, but when you fool yourself it Becomes Fatal.

Re: Yea, wait till I'm writing a response .....THEN lock the thread! sheesh top rope #1646416 05/02/06 10:55 AM
Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 8,344 D Dealan-de Member
Dealan-de Member D Joined: Jun 2004 Posts: 8,344	[quote Hey, there should BE More of this going on. If there were MORE Horror stories out there, (instead of the usual keeping it ALL on the Down Low) perhaps MORE potential WS would NEVER even take that First Step .......cause the Consequences would be Just too Risky to even Chance. [/quote] HMMM....but conversely.....everyone is so dern "special" that the bad never happens to them....kwim? I know a certain guy who'd have never thunk the bad stuff would catch up to him.....yet he is now an Infidelity poster child. Hopefully his story will sway some readers here. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution? O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!

Re: Yea, wait till I'm writing a response .....THEN lock the thread! sheesh top rope #1646417 05/02/06 11:29 AM
Joined: Sep 2000 Posts: 10,060 No. Va. W worthatry Member
worthatry Member W Joined: Sep 2000 Posts: 10,060 No. Va.	Quote Actually this is just a small glimpse into the UGLY side of Infidelity. My sentiments, too, TR. (I haven't read the blog because it locked up my browser. I may peek from another computer later.) Even if the story is fictional, it's still plausible and maybe ought to be required reading for anyone getting caught in the grips of being a WS. It's an example of what might happen. JMHO WAT

Re: Yea, wait till I'm writing a response .....THEN lock the thread! sheesh worthatry #1646418 05/02/06 11:38 AM
Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp P Pepperband Member
Pepperband Member P Joined: Oct 2000 Posts: 35,996 Shrek's Swamp	2 words bunny burner LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders

Re: Yea, wait till I'm writing a response .....THEN lock the thread! sheesh Pepperband #1646419 05/02/06 11:42 AM
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IWRA Member I Joined: Mar 2005 Posts: 196	Some have asked and AllsFair's married 'loverboy' is NOT a pastor or a minister but a Jamaican musician. The actual names plus pictures on her BLOG (especially of his teen age daughter) are just old fashioned WRONG.

Re: Yea, wait till I'm writing a response .....THEN lock the thread! sheesh Pepperband #1646420 05/02/06 11:45 AM
Joined: Sep 2000 Posts: 10,060 No. Va. W worthatry Member
worthatry Member W Joined: Sep 2000 Posts: 10,060 No. Va.	What's a bunny burner, Pep? We have pigs in a poke 'round here, is that similar? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I saw your comments on the other thread and I don't disagree. Pretty far out there. Then again, I was accused of making up parts of my story because it wasn't believable to somebody. WAT

Re: Yea, wait till I'm writing a response .....THEN lock the thread! sheesh worthatry #1646421 05/02/06 12:02 PM
Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 566 I InTrustsAbsence Member
InTrustsAbsence Member I Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 566	Must be an internet thing, I always heard of bunny boiler (LOL!) It's the catch phrase for the crazy OW's actions from Fatal Attraction.

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