In Plan B since December - have not made any contact with WH. Yesterday received notification that he has asked for all his mail to be redirected - with forwarding address indicated as confidential. So I no longer will know for sure what his living arrangements are. I realise just how little I have achieved in terms of ME - as I am devastated that he now will no longer come 'home' to pick up his post. I was never at home when he did - but hoped that him returning would enable him to see the lovely home and [censored] cats that he has chosen to leave. Am really really tempted to contact him as it will mean that I will not have access to our joint account - is he gaslighting or am I reading far to much into something that he has probably not thought about in terms of consequences/how thoughtless his actions are?